Little things you do to look your best
This thread might get a little weird so if you find grooming and dressing well uncomfortable, I suggest heading back over to Reddit now. Wanted to start a thread for those of us in very outward-facing roles around small things you can do to look more polished, put together, etc.
I’ll kick it off: recently started getting my eyebrows threaded. Takes ~10-20mins, very subtle but looks great. Little place in midtown called CC Brow Bar does a great job and is convenient to duck into during the week.
Next thing I want to try: anyone have a recommendation for men’s manicures in midtown?
Invest in a steamer. Super easy and quick in the morning and makes your clothes look 100x better
What model do you use?
Keenly awaiting further info on this
Do you get your eyebrows threaded both above and below the brow as a man? Tried it once but looked like a drag queen so stopped but considering going only below the brow now
She does mostly above, maybe a little cleanup work below. That was my only worry going into it the first time but I just sat down, let them do their thing, and it looked awesome.
Interesting I got mine done above once but didn't like how it looked - very artificial and didn't improve the shape of my thick eyebrows. I actually do some eyebrow yoga has well which seems to have given me a nice natural arch
What do you tell them? Interviews coming up and want to do it but no clue what to ask for other than “don’t make me look like a twink”
Have it done below only. And don't go for too crazy of an arch. Source: my stylist from Berlin
i use the same bar of soap for my ass and my face. i also use chapstick.
chapstick is too complicated
Based on
Take a shower once a day and get a haircut every two months. That’s it lol.
Also I try to lift / cardio every day. In my mind that’s way better for health and vitality than any cosmetic product / primping / eye brow trimming
This thread isn’t for college kids who think showering (daily even!) and lifting are game-changers.
No you are right, showering daily is the bare necessity, but lifting CORRECTLY consistently is a game changer. How many guys in your office actually look like they are in shape (I.e., can bench 225, squat 315, run a sub 8 min mile)? In my office of like 50 guys it’s probably 1 or 2 - the rest of them are fat or skinny fat dweeb men.
The fact of the matter is if you walk into a room with cantaloupe delts, sick arms, and a quad sweep you gain instant subconscious respect from everyone else. When you open your mouth and talk that’s another thing, but how jacked you are as a guy plays a big role on how others initially perceive you. I couldn’t give a fuck if I have a few wrinkles from getting older or if my hairline is slightly receding at 30. Part of life man.
I just choose not to waste my time and money on beautification products and routines that 1. probably don’t work all that well and 2. Will only delay the inevitable. Eat clean, lift a lot, sleep a lot. That’s pretty much it.
just waiting for the Patrick Bateman routine...
In the morning if my face is a little puffy I'll put on an ice pack while doing stomach crunches. I can do 1000 now. After I remove the ice pack I use a deep pore cleanser lotion. In the shower I use a water activated gel cleanser, then a honey almond body scrub, and on the face an exfoliating gel scrub. Then I apply an herb-mint facial mask which I leave on for 10 minutes while I prepare the rest of my routine. I always use an after shave lotion with little or no alcohol, because alcohol dries your face out and makes you look older. Then moisturizer, then an anti-aging eye balm followed by a final moisturizing protective lotion.
Right on cue
Take care of your shoes. Clean, cream and polish.
Yup. Shoes. The right kind / color for every outfit. And keep them clean. And the right socks, too.
And cedar shoe trees! Good shoes with proper care can last a lifetime. I have a ~12yo pair of black AE park aves that still look great today.
Any shoe care kit recommendations?
Got the back of my neck lasered. No more messiness, used to be really annoying. Also I have a skincare routine: high quality face wash and moisturizer, use retinol nightly and a lactic acid once a week as an exfoliant.
Q: how many visits does it usually take to make sure hair is permanently removed to where the follicles are completely gone.
Similar issue - neck hair that's extending past beard line and on the back of neck as well
I want to say it took 4 visits to see good results, and a few more for it to be totally gone
How far does the laser go up the neck? Does it mirror a haircut basically (presumably a little lower?)
Yes I kept it a tiny bit below where I get it cut. I get a taper on the back (basically stubble/close to bald) so it works well
Pair my sock color to my pant color. So many guys at the office wear just black socks or plain light grey socks with dark pants, I don’t get it
Hey all, Thanks for starting this thread! Paying attention to grooming can make a big difference, especially in outward-facing roles. Recently, I've been focusing on skincare. Any recommendations for men's manicures in midtown?
Organized from easiest to most in-depth:
I. Have a full personal care routine (full skincare, quality hair product, physical fitness, etc.), you should also pay attention to other aesthetic details like combing your hair and maintaining a professional style in that regard (you can look into classic hair styles for men and take your pick).
II. Always invest in classic quality clothes. It's simple, yet most fellow men still somehow fail at this. Personally I buy vintage and pre-owned, you don't have to do that especially if you have money, but most clothes you see at popular and readily available retail stores are pretty awful quality and horribly overpriced. If you really have money you can invest in bespoke garments from a quality tailor. I recommend doing online research to discover what defines quality, where to find it, and what fits your budget.
IIa. Plan your wardrobes and pay attention to every detail. Again, all of the in-depth information you need can be found online (just lookup classic professional menswear on YouTube). Wear a variety of classic suits everyday to work and make them interesting (don't just go for the generic slim fit notch lapel jacket that you can get at any Chinese factory outlet), combine that with a variety of quality dress shirts and accessories. Invest in a collection of neckties, pocket squares, and cuff links that will significantly improve visual interest, formality, and perceived class. Invest in quality leather dress shoes that complement your suits and professionalism. In other words, take yourself seriously, stay classy, and stay refined. Other people will positively take notice, and don't forget the little things do count.
IIb. Learn how to maintain your wardrobe. Buying things is easy, but keeping them in top shape over the long term is a bit more demanding. You should always buy clothes and other items with the intent of maintaining them in the long term. When buying a suit, throw in a steamer, an iron, and a clothing brush. When buying shoes, buy a complete shoe care and polish set and some shoe trees. Et cetera. As mentioned before, all of the information you need on maintenance can be found online.
(The following will go more into behavior and character rather than looks, but in my opinion the two are inseparable. Anyone can look good in a bespoke suit but not everyone commands respect. If you're willing to invest in looks, you should also invest in character; otherwise it may fail to make a difference).
III. Improve your mannerisms and communication. Do your best to learn the simple everyday mannerisms that embody strong character and classic masculinity. Say good morning to your fellow coworkers, moderate your tone of voice and learn when to speak firmly versus when to speak calmly. It may all seem obvious, but unfortunately common sense is not so common. Even otherwise fine people can lose their temper or become unreasonably flustered when confronted with something minor. The best way to ensure you stay rational and respectful at all times is to practice it at all times. Likewise, make sure to communicate as clearly as you can, at least during the workday. There is an abundance of speaking and behavioral guides available online that can explain that far better than I can.
IV. Maintain and expand your interests and hobbies. This may be difficult or even impossible to maintain during the analyst years, but if and when you have time, do make an effort to try new things and routinely engage in other engaging activities that make you happy (no, video games and TV shows don't count, go outside). Go to the country club and play golf or tennis now and then, work on painting, read a long book, or pick up fencing or something. Do whatever it takes to maintain your character outside of work.
Hey - thank you for this. I feel like I have been on this path for a couple of years now, and I carry myself well especially relative to the me of a few years ago. Touching on the final two points, I want to really be more interesting/refined/confident inside and not just out. How do you go about this? As a second year analyst now I feel like my life experience is fairly limited outside of the work environment just given the nature of the job. Also I find myself scrolling through dumb instagram reels or youtube videos when I have time to unwind (outside of working out), and I'd like to do more interesting stuff. I didn't grow in an environment where my parents put emphasis on learning instruments, golf, etc. I know the answer is to just go out and try/do things that I want but I find it tough to find the motivation/time and frankly it is intimidating to do so, but I would like to do so. Any tips or recommendations on how to approach. Also I don't even know what it is that I want to try. I picked up golf for a bit but now it's tough without a car/being in a city, etc. Lol I feel like I am making so many excuses typing this out.
If your skin tans then tanning is the single greatest thing you can do your your appearance. Just facing toward the sun in the afternoons makes a huge difference. Not to get too vain or particular but it’s more the fact that it has a clearing/smoothing effect on the skin and sort of hollows out the cheeks than that it adds color.
All the best,
Patrick.
Coffee in the afternoon reliably makes your face look the best it can in the evening
-Take care of your clothes (Whiten/starch collars, steam suits, lint roller, dry-clean ties every so often, shoe trees + regularly polishing)
-Make sure said clothes fit well (get trousers altered, don't buy suit jackets that are too tight, know your neck measurement for shirts, get the right sleeve length)
-If you wear glasses, remember to keep them clean. Our brains will mask smudges and scratches over time so we aren't disturbed by them, but people we speak to can definitely tell
-Drinking tons of water daily. It's easy to forget but makes a huge difference.
-Shave everyday
-Sunscreen + Vitamin C serum daily
-Haircut every 2 weeks (used to get a haircut whenever I felt like it. Having a regular schedule helps maintain a consistent/neat look)
**Spine mobility and stretches + Plank + body weight glute bridges ** Good posture is really important, but often overlooked.
For a polished look, I’ve recently started getting my eyebrows threaded, which has made a noticeable difference. I love my local spot, CC Brow Bar, in Midtown—it’s quick and effective. Next on my list is trying a men's manicure to really elevate my grooming routine. It’s great to explore services that can enhance your overall appearance and complement your skincare and grooming regimen! Any recommendations for manicure spots in Midtown?
eyebrow threading really changes the way you look
For a quality men's manicure in Midtown, check out Hammer & Nails for a tailored, masculine grooming experience or Groomed Gentleman for an upscale, modern vibe. Both offer great service in a relaxing environment!
Noice
There are so many little things that make such a huge difference
Eyebrows; I get mine waxed every six weeks just for maintenance and the aesthetician does not touch the shape of them rather cleans them up.
Invest in crease resistant shirts; this has been a game changer as I no longer need to visit my dry cleaner once a week. I can throw the shirts in the wash and they come out perfect
Haircuts regularly; before working full time I would get a haircut every 8 weeks now I go every 3 weeks to keep on top of it and looking sharp
Skincare; I started going to a dermatologist who recommended specific products for my specific skin and had made a world of difference.
Tailor; if you haven’t already please go to the tailor and make sure all your clothing fits you properly. Nothing worse than seeing someone in poorly fitting trousers or shirt.
This is how I am currently attacking maximizing my potential, curious to see if you have anything else to add on
- Fitness: Progressive overload on a regular basis to better my physique. Intense cardio 2x a week just to keep my general health in check and skin looking good, like to get sweaty.
- Diet: Hit my protein daily through a shake and also chicken/beef/fish in every meal, I try to eat leafy greens and some fruit/yogurt daily.
- Skincare: Standard routine; cleansing, moisturizing, serums, and sunscreen
- Grooming: Try to keep a professional/neat haircut that suits my face/head, try to keep beard trimmed and well shaped
- Clothing: Show off my height, like nicely tailored pretty subdued but high end clothes, try to flair it up with some gentle accessories/etc.
- Teeth: did invisalign so they're straight now, use whitening strips every few months to keep the shade nice and light
- Hydration: Many cups of green tea a day, few bottles of water, probably need to up this tbh
- Stress: Try to meditate in the morning to lower my baseline stress levels, find it really impacts my facial expressions/posture
- Communication: Have been trying to read more, watch more film, trying to just become a better rounded person so I can be more interesting to talk to, also try to chase exciting life experiences that leave good stories so I have more than just my job to talk about
Biggest game-changer? Wearing clothes that actually fit. Turns out looking like an overworked intern isn’t a flex.
Finance is just the adult version of high school—except instead of Jordans and Supreme, it’s loafers and Loro Piana. Dress accordingly.
Bro, eyebrow threading is a solid move. Clean, subtle, and makes a difference. Next step: figuring out how to Botox away stress from deal flow. Lmk if you find a place for that.
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