Striking out on recruiting, feeling hopeless

I have been recruiting for a new job for about a year now. The main reason is because I want to leave the absolute shithole, toxic workplace I deal with everyday - my PM berates everyone almost everyday and working with him is like walking on egg shells. I have had 6 final rounds in the past few months but have struck out on all of them, and now I’m feeling pretty hopeless and dread going into work every single day because I haven’t also gotten a decent bonus 2 years in a row and get treated like shit

final round 1 at a large multi strat fund - was passed over and feedback was they picked the other candidate for a better prez despite my case being better.. that candidate got fired a few months later

final round 2 at a family office - was told I would get the offer and asked pay etc, only to be ghosted for a month and then being told it went to an internal candidate

final round 3 at a well known SM credit fund - my fault, social faux pas despite good case cost me an offer

final round 4 at a well known event driven fund - was told formatting on model could be better

final round 5 at a multi strat - went to someone with more exp

final round 6 at well regarded SM - told it was super close and honestly a coin toss between who would be a better fit

My background isn’t the best because I didn’t do banking and went straight to the buyside with a non finance (but stem) degree although from a good school so I don’t get too many bites on HH outbounds to begin with. Now I’m scratching my head and wondering what can be done to just get a new role. I’m struggling balancing striking out, some personal issues and dealing with a toxic PM

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Based on the most helpful WSO content, here’s a structured approach to help you navigate this tough situation and improve your chances:

  1. Analyze Feedback and Patterns:

    • Review the feedback from your final rounds. For example, formatting issues on your model or social faux pas are actionable areas. Practice and refine these aspects with mock interviews or by seeking feedback from trusted peers or mentors.
    • Identify patterns in why you’re being passed over. Is it presentation, technical skills, or fit? Address these systematically.
  2. Leverage Networking:

    • Cold emails and informational interviews can open doors. Focus on building relationships rather than just asking for jobs. Use your STEM background as a unique selling point to differentiate yourself.
    • Reconnect with alumni or professionals in your target roles. A warm introduction can often bypass the traditional hiring process.
  3. Refine Your Story:

    • Your non-traditional background can be a strength if framed correctly. Highlight how your STEM degree and buyside experience bring a unique perspective to investment roles.
    • Practice telling your story in a concise, compelling way that aligns with the needs of the roles you’re targeting.
  4. Expand Your Search:

    • Consider roles outside of your immediate target (e.g., corporate finance, FP&A, or even tech finance roles). These can serve as stepping stones while you continue to aim for your ideal position.
    • Look into smaller funds or firms that value diverse backgrounds and may not have rigid hiring pipelines.
  5. Mental Resilience:

    • Dealing with a toxic workplace and personal issues is draining. Take steps to protect your mental health—whether it’s therapy, exercise, or simply taking time to recharge.
    • Remember, rejection is part of the process. Each final round is a testament to your ability to get close. Use these experiences to refine your approach.
  6. Mock Interviews and Coaching:

    • Record mock interviews to identify areas for improvement (e.g., tone, pacing, or content). This can help address issues like social faux pas or presentation skills.
    • Consider professional coaching if you feel stuck. A fresh perspective can often uncover blind spots.
  7. Stay Strategic:

    • Treat your job search like a job. Set daily or weekly goals for applications, networking, and skill-building.
    • Avoid desperation in interviews. Focus on finding a role where you’ll thrive, not just escape your current situation.

Remember, persistence and adaptability are key. Many professionals have faced similar struggles and eventually found success by staying focused and continuously improving. Keep pushing forward!

Sources: A non-target's failure, Resilience in the face of rejection, Navigating the Unemployment Terrain, Finding New Jobs, Navigating the Unemployment Terrain

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Sometimes that’s just how it goes man. There’s so much chance involved in every aspect of life. You can and will flip tails 6x in a row. Keep chugging

 

interviews I did prior to that one were very small teams ~2-3 person teams.. so I didn't know the expectation was to stay behind and meet everyone at the firm, including for dinner, if the case went well.. not elaborating more at the risk of being doxxed if someone on that team sees this. Stupid, I know.. but I genuinely didn't know this and for whatever reason didn't think to ask anybody about it too.. 

 
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Finance recruiting is a pure numbers game. Getting to 6 finals means your background is good enough. Unfortunately, many firms interview people just to "see what's out there" rather than having real intent to hire. It's incredibly hard to gauge beforehand if you're walking into a real process or just a market check. Always worth asking directly about the seat (replacement hire? expanded coverage?) before investing time in deep prep.

Nothing here suggests a fundamental problem with your candidacy. That said, might be worth considering whether you need to make a faster move to a "good enough" next step just to get out of the toxic environment. Sometimes perfect is the enemy of good.

Fwiw, I've worked at places where I was really hyped up about the brand/prestige & really clicked with the seniors, and it ended up being a mediocre experience. Also joined a place I thought was "meh" on surface but it catapulted me in to the next level. 

 

Always worth asking directly about the seat (replacement hire? expanded coverage?) before investing time in deep prep.

Thanks, this is a helpful tip. I think one of the final rounds I did this year was just a feeler for what's out there given the number of times they've reposted the job on bloomberg.

That said, might be worth considering whether you need to make a faster move to a "good enough" next step just to get out of the toxic environment. Sometimes perfect is the enemy of good.

I agree, and I have been open to these types of roles, too - a couple of the final rounds included roles that weren't the best fit for me but good enough for the next step. Unfortunately, I did strike out on those too (final round #2 and #4).

Given your title, I assume you've done a fair share of hiring, so do you have any tips to stand out in the final rounds? Especially when it's a close decision between 2 candidates. What tips the scale in favor of the other?

 

Fundamentally, I screen for three things: 

  1. Raw horsepower - Are you smart enough for the role?
  2. Grit - Will you push through when things get tough?
  3. Chemistry - Would I want to spend 12+ hours a day with you?

Don't try to be who you think they want to tip the scales - it really shows. The best candidates are authentic and self-aware. Skillset mean nothing if you can't mesh with the team. Also worth noting - great interviewers don't always make great analysts on the job, and vice versa. I try to look past the occasional interview anxiety if I sense real potential underneath.

Bottom line: It's mutual fit assessment. You should be evaluating them just as much as they're evaluating you. When it's right, both sides usually know.

 

I had an experience where I joined what people on here seem to define as a prestigious shop with pedigreed investors who on paper had the track record of developing talent. Didn't learn as much nor enjoy it day-to-day. Switched to working for a first-time PM at a less prestigious fund who became a star MM PM.

The "prestigious" seat had all the boxes checked from the outside. The "riskier" move with the up-and-coming PM taught me proper risk management & process, and his multi-year success and rep created massive opportunities through association.

Hence why I feel like a lot of the conversations on here around "top SMs" / "Pods" and listing them are a bit of a useless exercise, as it has, in my own experience, limited correlation to your own success factors.

 

Sorry to hear that man. I've done 3 final rounds in the past year, I have let's say somewhere betw 5-7yrs of experience.

1st final round: Went to a candidate with 15+yrs experience. Was told I did a good job in the final round

2nd final round: Went to a candidate with 25+yrs experience (this was just ridiculous). All of the team members liked me better but the CIO of the fund wanted the other candidate so end of story. Was told I did a great job in the final round and everyone was impressed with me

3rd final round: Not sure who this one went to yet, I'll see on the page soon enough. Was told all the feedback was positive

It just sucks given in a normal market I could've landed this. But there's so much senior talent recruiting for roles that it's brutal. You are in a better seat than me because I'm pretty sure I'm in an up-or-out scenario this year and up is not happening given my fund is sucking wind with a bloated cost structure right now. Hoping for the best man

 

That's interesting man cus I have slightly over 10 years experience, but fund#1 I'm interested in want someone with up to 3 years exp, fund #2 want someone with 2 years exp... 

Anyone can explain why they prefer junior analysts? cost concern? is there any point engaging in the future if there is a strong mismatch in terms of years of exp or from your interview experiences, what % of HF do you find openminded and flexible in terms of exp levels?

 

The threshold is somewhere around 5-8 years. Beyond that the HR/BD will usually filter you out if you did not run risk directly. The cost is not an issue, in quant they often pay juniors more than existing seniors, because there is much more demand for juniors and it's easier for them to get competing offers. Most PMs think younger people will work harder and are more moldable to their own process. Seniors will only be considered if they cannot get enough juniors relative to demand, like in 2021.

 

Hey man, sorry for your experience.

I'm not in the position to give advice, so sorry about that.

I wanted to just ask about your STEM background, since I plan to get a business or engineering degree. I personally really find engineering to be very intelligent profession, but was unsure about the buyside/sellside opportunities afterwards. What do you think about that?

 

Tbh nobody really questioned this for me during my internship search in school except maybe a couple people. I also did study a pure science subject vs engineering. I have come across some engineering grads at these funds I interviewed at though, so pursue what you will truly like to study but have a good reason as to why not finance/econ in case someone asks.

 

Regarding this: Final round 1 at a large multi strat fund - was passed over and feedback was they picked the other candidate for a better prez despite my case being better.. that candidate got fired a few months later

Did you try reaching out to them again to see if there was any opportunity again? Although don't pitch it as saying that you know the other candidate left/got fired. Sometimes if they remember you enough, they might consider you rather than going through a whole new recruitment process again. 

 

I am absolutely feeling the same. It feels so hopeless. I've been recruiting for almost a year as well. My firm shut down 3Q of last year. I've gotten to a few very late stage rounds, and I got similar responses - the position went to someone with more experience. I am hoping things open up around bonus season with the normal churn. Fingers crossed for both of us. 

 

How do you guys find so many opportunity to interview for? I have been trying to position myself as a sector specialist in L/S cross capital structure investing and I’m having a hard time finding the right opportunities.

Are you guys generalists or just interview for all the headhunters reach outs?

 

#1- don’t get down on your luck, as others have said, it’s a numbers game and it takes time. Keep your chin up.

#2- make sure you’re refining / learning from every process. Sure it sounds like there’s an idiosyncratic issue at each process, but they also presumably hired somebody. Make sure you’re continuing to improve your candidacy. Aim to be the “must have”. The candidate where even if the process gets pulled and they lose headcount permission, they want to make a way to hire you and find a way.

#3- would not speak to toxic culture as a reason for departure. It’s a small world, if your founder/PM sucks, everyone in the industry already knows it. If someone in the interview brings it up themselves, dont feed into it. Just say yeah not the easiest place to work, but honestly there’s all sorts of characters in this business. If it was just that maybe would be fine, but I’m looking for something that is … x, y, x.

#4- pedigree doesn’t really matter much anymore. Now that you’re already working, it’s presumed that youre a real guy. It’s all about skill, training, drive, and grit. Make sure you have very sharp pitches and know your stuff cold.

#5- be a killer. Everyone wants a killer. Don’t go pussy footing around. It’s really hard hiring junior folks because generationally you all just seem much softer. If you’re a junior talent that have a killer mentality, that is highly employable

 

That’s life man. It is mathematically impossible for everyone to have their dream job at any given point in time. Everyone wants to be Warren Buffett but there can only be one.

Just keep your head down and keep on going. It took me 5 years to break into the industry. You need to be fully prepared and when luck comes your way, you’ve got to turn it into an opportunity.

 

Are you in a HF? Wondering what you mean by industry…whether HF or just broadly

 

It's all a numbers game buddy, gotta keep grinding. I submitted >200 applications as a senior and interviewed at ~40 places. Only made it past 1st round at like half of those and final rounds at maybe a third of those. Your performance so far indicates you're a smart candidate, it's just finding the right fit. You'll get there!

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Thanks everyone! OP here. I'm still trying to tough it out in the rough culture... I have been fortunate to receive 6 interviews since the post, so I'm hoping one of them works out! Have analyzed past mistakes and improved on them subsequently. I will update the post hopefully soon with something new. Very helpful advice and encouragement here, and grateful for the community.

 

I am in a very similar boat. I’ve been in SS research for almost 4 years working for a toxic senior analyst that drives me absolutely insane and getting horrible bonuses because my bank is cheap. I started doing buyside interview processes about 2 years ago and have gotten really really close in 5 of them. I know I am capable given I’ve gotten so close multiple times but I’m not sure what to do at this point because I want to just quit to get away from this job. I’m controlling everything I can control in terms of self study and preparation for interviews but the industry is just so hard to break into.

 

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