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Yes, too much. It would be creepy at best. There are plenty of banks out there, focus on those.

Definitely too much. I really don't think that would be well-received at all. Your chances with this one are probably gone unfortunately. As the above poster said, there are many other places out there, start reaching out to those.

Thanks for the responses. Lessons learned right.

Walk in with elevator shoes, cotton candy and balloon animals. It'll be a blast.

Definitely do not show up. If a guy calls you unprofessional, I would say you're done there. I really want to know what your excuse was and why you deprioritized the meeting at that time and now want to meet with him so desperately.

E-mail him an apology (even if you have already apologized once, just e-mail him saying how sorry you are); don't make excuses, don't ask for anything (don't ask for forgiveness). Also, DON'T ask for a second chance. The apology needs to be sincere and simple. Remember you are apologizing because you were unprofessionally and made a mistake, not because you want anything in return. After sending that e-mail, you are done at that firm, move on. I am really surprised that he messaged you saying you were unprofessionally. Most people I know would just ignore you. The point of the apology is so that he doesn’t hold a grudge against you. DO NOT e-mail if you don't think you will be able to write a sincere message without wanting anything in return.

Bad idea. Bridge burned. Move on.

Only worse thing you could do is show up at his kid's play recital

Yup, already apologized immediately. No further contact has been made.