Seeking advice regarding potential illness and career setbacks
Hi everyone,
I'm writing this post on a forum because I'm in need of some advice. Recently, I've been dealing with some health concerns that may be related to cancer or a rare autoimmune disease. As a result, I'm facing the possibility of having to skip my upcoming internship at a Big 5 bank in Canada in wealth management. My grades and overall life have already taken a hit due to my illness. My GPA has gone from a 4.0 to a 3.7, and I anticipate it may drop further, I am trying my best under the current circumstances but with the consistent high fevers and other symptoms along with having to go to doctors appointments multiple times a week my studies have taken a major hit.
My long-term goal is to go into investment banking, and I'm worried that this gap in my resume and lowering grades may be damaging to my career aspirations. Before my health took a turn, I worked as a junior analyst at a boutique firm for the past two summers. I'm currently in my second year of studying PPE at a school in Canada the odds are already against me because I am in a non-commerce/finance program and I assume that it will be even harder for me to get an analyst role if I miss my internship this summer along with my lower grades.
I'm seeking advice on how to mitigate the damage that may be done to my career aspirations due to these health concerns. I'm worried that my grades and the gap in my resume may make it difficult for me to get back on track with my career goals. I was wondering if there is anything, in particular, I can do to try and mitigate the impact that this chapter will have on my future.
I would appreciate any advice or support that you can offer during this challenging time. I want to prioritize my health, but I also want to do what I can to maintain my professional goals and aspirations. I am hoping to get some kind of mentor in the next couple weeks in order to help guide me through all of this.
Thank you for taking the time to read this post and offer any insights you may have.
Hey zapo1231 - I’m sorry to hear about your current situation and wish you the very best in your recovery. Please consider the importance of your health relative to your career. Your health is by far your most important asset, and without it, it is incredibly difficult to not experience setbacks in other areas of your life.
While I can certainly understand the burning desire to keep up with your career aspirations - and believe it serves as a testament to your character - I would highly advise to focus 100% of your energy towards your return to full health. You have great internship experience as it stands and your potential resume gap is something you could easily voice over while interviewing/networking as it pertains to your current situation. Also, I know this site sets a high bar for undergraduate GPAs, but I’d like to emphasize that a 3.7 is absolutely nothing to sneeze at.
Stay strong and I hope you get well soon.
Hello Person123,
Thank you so much for your kind words and support during this challenging time. You're absolutely right that my health is my top priority, and I'm taking all the necessary steps to ensure a full recovery.
At the same time, I am concerned about the impact that my current situation may have on my career aspirations. The summer 2024 recruiting season is already in full effect, and I am worried that I may not be able to secure an analyst role for that summer, which could have long-term implications for my career.
Apart from networking and improving my GPA, do you have any other recommendations that could help me mitigate the potential damage to my career caused by my current situation? I would really appreciate any advice or guidance that you can provide.
Thank you again for your support and kind words. They mean a lot to me during this difficult time.
Absolutely, and I appreciate the kind words as well. Unfortunately, I don’t have too much else to add other than focusing on your work and/or interviews when you feel up to the task. Just brainstorming through some potential options, you could also explore remote internships in IB/PE/VC/M&A that would have flexibility around your current situation - perhaps contributing on an ad-hoc or project basis.
I would like echo the importance of prioritizing your health at this time, but I hope the above was helpful as you’re looking to navigate your career opportunities in parallel. Happy to answer any additional questions, and please keep us posted. You got this - sending thoughts and prayers your way.
Focus on your health and not your career. Get as healthy as you can, given the situation you are in.
While often not openly discussed, bankers are also human beings and I have seen a fair share of colleagues who went through a health scare. It often depends on the gravity of the condition. While an autoimmune disease might be managed over time, cancer might be a different story.
IB (and any management job) comes with a steep price tag - time, effort, nerves, youth, and health. You are giving up a lot to gain something else. Make sure that this "something else" is worth something to you.
Hi Mech,I appreciate your comment, I was told it is lymphoma if it is cancer which is extremely treatable. It is finding out what I have thst has been the issue. I have thought long and hard over the past couple years about what I want for myself and my future and I do see investment banking in that picture which is why i am so worried about this impact. I am ready and am expecting the strains and stress associated with the job and this experience is just another piece of my life that will eventually blow over and give me more resilience in the end. My life up until now has been more eventful and stressful then the average person and these experiences motivate and drive me as a person I am willing to take on the stress and strain of the job in all aspects of my life. However presently I am trying to address these health issues while accounting for the impacts on my future endeavours I appreciate your comment!
Genuienly sorry for your cancer. DM me and lets connect on linkedin to see whether there is something I can do to help within my current job (albeit being in a diff country). For now, please focus on your health and not banking.
Hi Berran,
I really appreciate this, I have gone ahead and sent you a message.
Very sorry to hear above this, feel free to DM me and I can provide some contacts, guides, and personal advice (I was in a similar position with a life threating health issue) if any of that would be helpful.
Hi lnqnvcrluewcoiwkaj,
I appreciate your generous offer, It is not letting me send a message since I am not a certified user is there any way you could message me? Thank you!
I'm a multiple cancer survivor. I landed several interviews for "elite" IB and PE from a non-target when I was your age so here is my advice;
Best of luck.
Hello,
This is very helpful I have one last exam left so I will be finishing it and then ending this school year. I have been working on getting a pass/fail grading system in place but the school is making it as hard as possible for me to do so. I will start working on joining more clubs and being more involved as a whole. I have been doing a variety of courses in the meantime on modeling and have been trying to build my resume. I have been also networking as much as I can trying to gain as much knowledge and insight as I can in preparation for senior-year recruitment. I have really realized that even though the odds are stacked against me at this point, there are so many things I can do to try and lessen the impacts that they have. I really appreciate you sharing your story with me, and this post has put things into perspective for me.
Thank you so much!
As many others have posted - prioritize your health.
I was stricken with illness in my 20s and early 30s, in//out of hospitals constantly to the point I knew most staff on a first-name basis. Get the treatment and get your health taken care of before pursuing this endeavor. Make sure to get a dietician if you can through your care plan or even consult one for specialty diets (many people do not know that it can be covered in insurance). It took me a long time before I am where I am now. You got this.
Best of luck.
Hello IcedxTaro,
I apprecviate your suggestion about going to see a dietition, i will for sure be doing that in the coming weeks. Luckily I live in Canada so I wouldnt have to pay but at the same time I have massive waits. The general consensus here is to get my health under control and the rest will fall into place. I am trying my best to do that and am hoping to get things figured out this summer.
Thanks for your good wishes and advice!
Hey Mate
Sorry to hear about your current situation - having been through it myself I really empathise with where you're coming from because it's just generally shitty. In my case, it was an autoimmune condition, which kind of "emerged" around Sep 2021 and resulted in me being hospitalised for 2 weeks in December 2021, because I was stupid and didn't get a second opinion or take the warning signs seriously, and prioritised performance at Uni and the minimisation of disruptions to my career plan over my own health. Please don't do this - one key requirement of having a career in finance or otherwise is being alive and physically capable.
Now, I wasn't in exactly the same situation as you because I was in my 3rd year of a 5 year degree, and in Australia recruiting for summers in IB/Finance in general doesn't really occur until mid-way through the penultimate year (I believe this is Junior year for the Americans), however I will say that I was genuinely petrified of the potential career ramifications of the condition. I thought that my working life was over before I'd had a chance for it to begin and was just overwhelmingly distraught. Ultimately, that fear didn't eventuate - I was able to get on the proper medical regime with the right doctors and make certain lifestyle changes that allow me to live relatively "normally". I was able to get a Summer Analyst role and secure a return offer, just as I planned initially. My quality of life is relatively good - there are good days and bad days, but ultimately it averages as alright - I deal with a bit of excessive fatigue, but the group were aware of this and more than happy to accommodate for it, which I guess is a big part of having a lasting and successful career if this is an ongoing condition. I don't think I would have been able to accomplish any of that without taking a step back from my big ambitions to focus on my health though. If you don't step back you end up focusing on both part-time and you both prolong your own suffering as well as doing a sub-par job at career-building.
In summary, my advice to you would be to sort your health out and then focus on your career. As many others in this thread have said before me, Bankers are people too and will understand if there's a gap in your career due to a health condition. Best of luck with everything.
Hello twr1124,
I appreciate you sharing your story with me, I understand the same anxitey and struggles you are having because I am expriiencing them as well. I am hoping to get on the proper regime and treatment plan to get my life back. The recrutiing cycle is bothering me and has been a major cause of worry, however I realize now that I must get my health sorted before I try to do anything else.
Thank you!
Great thoughts in the thread already. One thing I will say is that when you get through this, you will have a better perspective and story than almost everyone your age.
I grew up with an illness I thought was terminal, so a good schoolweek for me was 3 days and I basically constantly felt hungover. Been kept in a hospital overnight hundreds of times in my life. This was only fixed after the age of 20. It's made me more resilient, and has made me stand out massively in interviews as well. Currently at a VC with good comp, a successful side business and a very happy life overall.
Prioritize your health - you will easily catch up later on in life.
He DatesExcelModels,
I totally agree with you, I have had other issues in my life and those have for sure given me a unique perspective and adversity that is beyond my years. I agree that these thigns have made me stand out but my issue is that I am worried no one will give me a chance with my declining gpa and gaps within my resume. I am glad to hear you are doing better now.
Thank you!
As someone who has crossed that bridge - I promise you'll be OK. Take care of yourself, do what you can in the meantime, and have faith that when you're firing on all cylinders you'll make up for the lost time.
OP, your health and recovery come first and foremost. When you're back on the grind and if any firm dings you for this, they weren't worth it in the first place. There will always be opportunity.
Am in Toronto. When you're ready to get back in the mix, ping me. Will help you any way I can.
Hi Rabbit,
I appreciate your generosity, I do agree that if people are giving me slack it is honestly not worth it in the first place, I do hope things fall into place for myself.
Thank you!
Here's idea, maybe a longshot. Let's say you decide you can't manage the SA. You could call them up, and tell them you've had to put your life on hold to treat a serious, perhaps life threatening medical condition, would they consider putting you in next years program instead? If it's a yes, you could take a leave of absence from your undergrad, and pick everything back up next year. If the health condition is real, and justifies it, they might be sympathetic, or worried about discrimination. I'm sorry it happened, but life is full of setbacks I'm sorry to say. You have to do the best you can with the cards you are dealt.
Hi Street, I appreciate this feedback and I will see what exactly they say they can do, I am waiting for a lot of the testing to come back before i make these decisions. I totally get that this is a part of life and i just have to live with it however, I am trying my best to try and make as much good come out of this setback as I can.
Thank you!
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