For example, for me: Pysically Attractive, Intelligence, Maturity, Sense of Humor, Grounded Values.
Just curious to see what other guys look for.
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Athletic, Intelligent, Monotheistic
and no kids forreal bro
I’ll settle down right now for the right person.
Ethical, Curious, Loving
Passionate
Unique
Smart
Stunning
Youthful
No penis. Yea yea, I know women have penises these days but I guess I'm just old school.
Del
the most down to earth post here.
Intelligent
Cheeky
Loving/caring
From a good family
Pizz i need you here
What, family is important. Could never go out with a girl that hates her parents or wants to "flee" into my arms. Like, girl, fix your shit yourself, I'm neither your father not your therapist.
Nice face
Cute butt
Big tits
no how old are you how much do you make criteria for your girl?
That's only for men.
I had a seizure reading whatever this is.
You left out the most Pizz piece of the response, a "certain piece" of yourself.
Heart, liver, intestines, gut, pancreas, cervix, etc
Found Patrick Bateman
I think you misspelled Hannibal Lecter or Jeffrey Dahmer. Either way, if trying invites you to a "dinner party", don't go!
Feminine
Intelligent
Passionate
Adventurous
1:1, balanced Ass to Tit Ratio
Those are hard to find and then you want 1:1 ratio on top of everything lol??
beautiful, preppy, athletic, catholic or jewish, small blank, short, smart, hard working, mentally stable, long-term view on things!
Mentally stable is an underrated trait these days...
Yeah - I had a female analyst tell me shes going to be a billionaire then hang up on me 5 minutes into the call
I actually really want an intelligent gf
Looking back at all my gfs / flings / girls I’m friends with, none of them have had the same level of wit, intellectual curiosity or (I’d argue) raw intellect of many of my male friends
Now - my guy friends aren’t exactly MIT Physics nerds. Just pretty typical finance bros, lawyers etc who did okay in school and are pretty smart.
Even girls I know / sleep with / date who have jobs in finance, law or healthcare (pharma) are just more ditzy, less interested in basic politics etc
Admittedly I don’t have a MASSIVE sample size, and it’s probably skewed by hanging out with a certain type of crowd, but still…
Interested if anyone can relate
That's usually women in general. When you find one like this who is also attractive, let the government know so she can be studied.
100% facts. The people MS'ing you just haven't had that much experience with women lol.
This is something I sometimes wonder about. Obviously there are many extremely smart women out there, and many extremely intellectually curious women.
But I think the general thrust is "book-smartness", high conscientiousness smartness. I have found, in general, that guys tend to be more philosophically and meditatively minded than girls. Again there are tons of women who are very philosophical and meditative! Just reflecting on my experiences, on average.
Similar with willingness to test/consider strange/new ideas.
I also consider for myself, do I want someone inclined to think so similarly to me? Probably not. I want my partner to compliment me.
That probably doesn't mean another person who likes thinking how I do. Maybe it does, I don't know.
I do think we shouldn't expect to get all of our emotional and mental needs fulfilled by our partners. There is a healthy spectrum of compatibility, but to demand or expect total fulfillment from a spouse is asking too much.
In his book Awareness, Anthony de Mello claims that when we need anything from a person, we no longer truly love them. Maybe this is true too. Something to think about.
you sure you won't get intimidated by someone like that?
in reality, I think the problem is you're essentially asking for opinions. Women tend not to give opinions to people that they don't know very well / in social settings because it can offend people. It's not that we don't have them, whether we want to share them with you or not is a different story
Sometimes they don't even have an opinion on an issue because they prefer not to think about it. Even if you're right, I consider their fear of causing offense a flaw in and of itself. The most interesting discussions I've had were with guys who thought deeply about an issue and spoke their minds even if they were offensive. Women consistently kill this atmosphere with their vapid conversation and oversensitivity.
Has to be a 7 minimum in all respects. Rest is bonus.
High bar there man, good luck.
Per the matrix, [5,:9, 4:8] are my x,y criteria. How they chose to fill those criteria spaces is good with me
A face you can see every day
Nice booty
Maturity
Feminine non-aggressive easy going nature
Respects her mans wallet
Not emotionless or overly emotional
Smartness (street smart > book smarts)
Not too short
Beautiful (slim/fit, prominent cheekbones, big eyes)
Happy
Smart
Nice
Into me (really into me)
Some emotional thing - I really enjoy being with this person
Those are the things that really matter to me I think. Values need to overlap too, but incompatibility there that would be very obvious upfront.
Read something recently that said there are 3 types of people: type A really like you for some reason. Type B will hang out with you but are mostly ambivalent. Type C is everyone else, they don’t really care about you. You’ll hang out with a lot of type B, but don’t spend too much energy trying to turn a B into an A.
good face, athletic build, ambition, loyalty, sense of humor.
rich parents are always a plus
Just curious, why is rich parents a plus? I'm currently dating a girl who comes from rich parents.
One of my friends gf's dads just financed their entire month long trip to Europe. We're in our early 20s, so maybe things change as we get older, but my boy gets so much shit paid for.
If they are really rich parents, lots of bonuses can come from that. My friends older brother married a girl with rich parents, they bought them a gorgeous house as a wedding present.
Into fitness
Cute
Skier
Kind and understanding
Smaller frame
Intelligent
Big ass
Thin
Blonde
Cultured
Rich daddy
Big ass thin blonde and cultured? Doesn’t exist in the United Thots of America bro
I am willing to omit cultured but the rich dad has to stay I want to be a stay at home dad
I was gonna find a topless photo of Liz Hurley, but I guess OP wanted real answers. Here they are:
+1 on the European aspect.
Would like to permanently move to a town in the Swiss Alps at some point
Excellent choice, my friend. Switzerland has some of the most beautiful alpine villages in all of Europe. I hope you get to experience it one day.
As for me, I'd like to utilize the "tax nomad trifecta" method created by author and businessman Andrew Henderson, at least when I reach a certain level of net worth (number unknown as of now). In my case as an American citizen, the trifecta method involves the aforementioned expatriation (renunciation of citizenship) to rely on a passport of another nation, either by way of citizenship by descent or investment, then having properties in three different countries and travelling from home to home to spend divided portions of the year in each country where you have a home, usually four months spent in each. The reason this idea is attractive to people like myself is that, by spending less than 183 days of the year in each country, you can avoid any form of income or wealth tax that these countries may impose on their full time residents.
Obviously it would be foolish to judge the best countries for the future, but at the current time I fantasize about having homes in Saint Lucia for the winter and early spring, the Amalfi Coast for the late spring and summer, and Vienna from autumn up to the new year. I might also consider Asia and South America for the future given their burgeoning economic opportunities, but I'm unsure as of right now. Who knows what could happen? As long as my wife and children are taken care of while we're travelling, all is good to me.
Virgin
Fit
Decent human being (doesn’t have to be super kind, just not mean)
good luck with the first part
Tight body
Username checks out.
Fit, feminine, friendly. Attractive. Low body count. Loyal. Nothing else really matters.
Know when to put on that black lacy lingerie and when to solve problems at hand
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