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Who broke your heart?
MAN why does WSO attract these incels?
Seems you're going thru some stuff, I'm sorry to hear it man. I'd phrase it in a less binary way -- love does still exist but it's increasingly harder to find. 15yrs ago you'd maybe find that 50% of women were pretty quality and had reasonable expectations. These days in the under 35 crowd gun to my head -- based on personal experience and the experience of friends -- it's maybe 20-30%.
Dating apps make switching costs infinitely lower while social media elevates expectations beyond belief, and a highly liberal agenda in the past 2 decades has supported the idea that racking up dozens of bodies as a woman as not only ok but actually good...none of these in isolation are good for the psyche in supporting a LT relationship, in combination it's almost untenable. I've seen some very good relationships for folks in late 20s to early 30s, but they increasingly tend to be the exception rather than the norm.
Generally if you're trying to find a quality girl, you're chances are better off the apps. Maybe a friend's wedding, or a through a friend group, or through church / religion-related volunteer work (if you are religious), etc. I've gotten tired of the dating app game, when I'm with a girl I met off the apps I get a sense of 'here today, gone tomorrow'. I think the types of girls it attracts on average are lower quality vs. the general population of folks who don't use the apps. Just my two cents
The problem is social media has warped our sense of reality. Yes, there are women who prioritize hookups and put no effort in (these are those who end up bitter and childless), but you need to move on from immature women and keep looking.
Love exists if you are younger than 30. You will likely have to find a girl who you met in college and has not slept with a lot of guys. Reverse side is, you will have to stay with her and not cheat and chase women in your 20s.
No. Just no.
In the night I hear 'em talk
The coldest story ever told
Somewhere far along this road
He lost his soul to a woman so heartless
How could you be so heartless?
Oh, how could you be so heartless?
How could you be so cold as the winter wind when it breeze, yo
"To learn to love
is to be stripped of all love
until you are wholly without love
because until you have gone naked and afraid
into this cold dark place
where all love is taken from you
you will not know
that you are wholly within love."
- Madeleine L'Engle
"The Greeks distinguished four types of love: storge, philia, eros, and agape:
- Storge, familial love, is a word for the bond that exists between one who loves and persons, animals, and the things that surround him. It is compatible with quite a bit of taken-for-grantedness or even of hatred at times.
- Philia pertains to friends, freely chosen because of mutual compatibility and common values.
- Eros is passion, not only of a sexual nature, but also of an aesthetic or spiritual nature, for what is conceived of as supremely beautiful and desirable.
- Agape love is manifested when one person has much to give to another more needy. It is generous self-donation without concern for reward."
How Does the Church Define Love? | Catholic Answers Q&A
Interestingly, real-life speakers of ancient Greek almost never demarcated meanings this way. They often used some words either interchangeably or used different words in different contexts that coincidentally had the same meaning
Define "love" and then we can talk.
Sounds like you don't have a great understanding of the concept, however you define it. Why is it the woman's responsibility to take an interest in the man. Why does the number of people a woman has slept with even matter? Whatever the definition of "love" is, it certainly doesn't include a clause that says "and it is impossible to love someone if you've slept with more than XX people."
Sounds like no one wants to sleep with you, and instead of being honest and saying that and confronting the reasons for that and making a change, you're embarking on some basically illiterate rant. Focus on yourself, on being a better, more interesting, and more empathetic person, and the rest will come
You sound like a cuck.
And I'm married btw.
Pretty sure no one who uses the word "cuck" seriously is married. I'm not sure your right hand counts as a sexual partner, either.
Grow up, get of your mom's basement, get a job, and then come tell me you're married. Because when you talk like a pimply 15 year old trying to act tough on the internet... I'm going to assume you're 15.
Everyone forgets Ozymandia is a woman.
Ah yes empathy attracts more women to sleep with you
This may come as a shock, but yes, being a decent human being does make people more interested in you as a romantic/sexual/etc partner!
Listening to all of these alt-right incels giving advice on anything, let alone how to attract the interest of a woman, is always a joy.
Your second paragraph is a bit harsh lol, but I can't believe the rest of it is being piled on. What the fuck is wrong with the rest of you? Get off 4chan and go outside you cucks.
You must be fun at parties.
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