Family Office Question

I'm hoping someone can provide some color on a few questions I had on family offices. I'm fully aware that all family offices are different, so there will be great variability.

I'm currently in the process of transitioning roles, moving from a traditional PE firm to a single family office. They have a flexible mandate from buyout, growth equity, venture, etc. At the VP level, do you guys know how carry works at family office? I'm curious to know how that looks like since it's not like a normal fund.

For those that have joined a family office from traditional PE, how was the transition like?

For those that have left a family office to join (or rejoin) a traditional PE shop, what triggered the move? likes/dislikes?

8 Comments
 

I am in a new family office in the PE wing and I get carry on a deal by deal basis that vests over 2 years. Carry has a 1x return of capital provision and I believe it is “profit interest units”. Definitely lmm and smaller check sizes but the quick vesting is nice. Other family offices I interact with have longer carry schedules with IRR hurdles. Happy to answer any questions as it’s hard to find info.

 

OP here. Thanks for the response. The two year vesting is nice.

Do you guys employ a traditional PE shop strategy, buy and flip over a 3-5 year hold period? I'm curious in scenarios where the strategy is more of a 10+ years buy and hold. I would imagine some level of dividend recaps taking place for distribution to the family office to provide deal team members sort of "carry" compensation since the actual carry will take a long time to kick in. Let me know if that makes sense.

 

So we have a hybrid model, some stuff is opportunistic/ distressed and that’s a shorter hold, we also have some investments that are the traditional 3-5 year hold. Then we also have long term investments, most in this category are either ones that have had a dividend recap or have a ton of free cash flow and have hit or nearing the initial return of capital. In the case of the long term holds once the fund hits 1x via distributions carry is pari passu so you get your pro rata share of the economics which is nice since the next real liquidity event is unknown.

 

Just started at my new role so still learning, but I am almost certain that my fund does not offer carry at any level; I know that I do not have it as a junior. Carry/coinvestments have been relatively sensitive topics thus far (due to obvious funding reasons). However, my office has a good culture with a focus on employee retention, so I am curious to see how compensation shakes out over time.

 
Most Helpful

Is your comp in line with market? They may compensate for carry with cash instead. Some of these family offices with very long hold periods will either just do cash comp, or do some "phantom" carry model where they mark performance internally and pay based on that, rather than doing a dividend recap just to pay their own employees.

If you like the culture and investments, I wouldn't fret over carry right now. Get some experience and if a few years down the line the comp is seriously under market for you, it's not hard to lateral.

 

Appreciate the advice and yes, I agree. Culture has been great so far and enjoy the space/investments, so no reason to look elsewhere. From what I've heard, cash bonuses are their substitute.

To my knowledge, my comp is relatively in-line with market for the role, geography, and AUM. I have a unique (based on recruiter feedback) structured bonus model based on acquisitions, plus potential discretionary cash bonuses. 

 

Rerum ut eveniet expedita est. Voluptatem magni natus deserunt corrupti dolor soluta. Dolorem quae consequatur saepe sunt numquam et sit.

Quis autem quibusdam rerum aut asperiores cum fugiat non. Dolores qui neque adipisci. Eos repudiandae molestiae in omnis ut rem aut. Quas aut saepe inventore animi expedita cumque sunt. Ullam non placeat architecto amet quisquam et. Aliquam placeat inventore est nobis.

Asperiores sunt labore aut voluptas. Aut quos similique rerum iure id itaque autem. Dolorum consequatur aspernatur reprehenderit voluptates sed. Et autem distinctio veniam sed.

Quia voluptatem nihil maiores enim. Voluptatem molestias quas quis non. Reprehenderit corporis in voluptates suscipit libero nisi ut quia.

Career Advancement Opportunities

October 2026 Private Equity

  • Blackstone Group 99.6%
  • The Riverside Company 99.3%
  • KKR (Kohlberg Kravis Roberts) 98.9%
  • Warburg Pincus 98.5%
  • Vista Equity Partners 98.2%

Overall Employee Satisfaction

October 2026 Private Equity

  • Blackstone Group 99.6%
  • KKR (Kohlberg Kravis Roberts) 99.3%
  • The Riverside Company 98.9%
  • Ardian 98.5%
  • Warburg Pincus 98.1%

Professional Growth Opportunities

October 2026 Private Equity

  • Bain Capital 99.6%
  • Blackstone Group 99.3%
  • The Riverside Company 98.9%
  • Starwood Capital Group 98.5%
  • KKR (Kohlberg Kravis Roberts) 98.2%

Total Avg Compensation

October 2026 Private Equity

  • Principal (9) $653
  • Director/MD (24) $547
  • Vice President (100) $364
  • 3rd+ Year Associate (106) $280
  • 2nd Year Associate (236) $272
  • 1st Year Associate (414) $231
  • 3rd+ Year Analyst (33) $157
  • 2nd Year Analyst (97) $134
  • 1st Year Analyst (274) $126
  • Intern/Summer Associate (40) $79
  • Intern/Summer Analyst (357) $61
notes
16 IB Interviews Notes

“... there’s no excuse to not take advantage of the resources out there available to you. Best value for your $ are the...”

Leaderboard

success
From 10 rejections to 1 dream investment banking internship

“... I believe it was the single biggest reason why I ended up with an offer...”