Positive PE Experiences?

I’m heading into a career in PE and this forum has me massively doubting my choices. I was well aware that PE would not be a “2x salary 0.5x hours job” as some imagine it to be, but some of the stories here just seem downright horrifying. 

Like many, I enjoy Finance a ton. It’s stimulating and I’ve enjoyed reading about it my entire life. Since college, I thought PE was the job for me, and I’ve always wanted to feel like I am exposed to / investing in different businesses. However, post-IB, I was hoping have some non-negotiables, including spending time with a s/o and aging parents (I don’t intend on a perfect social/party life). 

My ultimate question is: Has anyone had a GOOD PE experience? Professionally is one thing, but culturally? If you ultimately exited, where to? Is there a better career option out there that still fits a finance bro’s interests (e.g., VC, HF)?

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There’s already another thread on this same topic. If you actually did your diligence on firm culture and investment process vs just picking based on brand name, you may be fortunate. Otherwise, I imagine it can be just as bad as people are saying. Take a step back and remember this is an online forum. The majority of people with good experiences don’t spend their time posting on this website. They’re living their life. It’s largely people coming to vent about hating their life looking for advice or college kids begging to break in without even knowing what they’re getting into. 

 

My 2 cents:

PE gave me skills at a junction in my career where it paved the way for my next steps which was stepping into an independent advisor/operator role. LMM so more operationally focused than what folks are experiencing up-market. It also provided amazing relationships and experiences in holding responsibility that I wouldn’t trade

That being said, I find career stability very low, with little tolerance for deviation from the path. I find that way too rough and unnecessary and the industry is probably wasting a ton of human capital with its inflexibility and set in stone ways.

many a day I wish I had gone the harder skill route, either engineering or applied science. Despite lower pay, those skillsets are less commoditized and its way easier to learn deals especially as you develop muscle memory in business and get reps, at least in my experience.

 

In UMM/large cap fund. I am based in EU but we have offices in the US. Pay at the fund is very good, and above IB (bonuses are better than IB, carry has been materialising for people). In terms of hours, I saw a net improvement in my WLB, social life, sport life, hobbies since I started. People in our US offices I would argue have a better life than in EU offices (hours & pay). Their hours are very good. It might be a bit tougher during deal sprints but these are limited in time (I.e. you won’t have another Phase II directly after finishing one generally) and tend to still be better vs IB hours. In deal sprint you can sometimes (but rarely) finishing ultra late (3am), sometimes goes to 1/2am but you’ll never have to pull an all-nighter, it would just be equal to mismanagement of the work streams which tend to not happen at all as people want to be efficient / don’t waste time. In Phase I deals or whenever there is no Phase II hours are great (not like a 9-5 but still very good especially considering level of pay).

Experience will vary a ton from fund to fund, hence just wanted to share a firm-specific datapoint. Firm is not a MF / ultra prestigious but has a good reputation in the finance world, you just won’t see articles on it every week.

 

My experience in PE was at a old UMM PE fund. My random thoughts below:

- I worked under a VP that was just a bad person (narcissist/pathological liar) and really made my life/job pretty difficult on a day-to-day basis to the point I thought about leaving early all the time. One of the Principals I worked with was the opposite and I would have taken a paycut to work under him for my 3-yrs at that firm.

- People were generally less abrasive than banking but somehow came off as worse although there are good people and you have to seek them out. I learned a lot about corporate politics / how to handle a bad apple (or a bad apple tree)

I would say this:

1) It depends entirely on the firm / person at the firm you work with although PE generally leans sharp elbowed / everyone out for themselves given how hard progression is and how much is reliant on others not progressing 

2) It is a great job at its core. You are paid to learn about businesses and industries. Yes its intense and there is a high bar for the quality of work but I found myself more engaged with the day to day of the job than I did in banking although I miss the culture/people at my old banking group

3) Regardless of what you want to do with your life I would recommend it. Money rules the world and you are in the center of that in PE. Also for some reason, it makes you think big picture. In IB exits are PE, Corp Fin / Strategy, HF, AM, etc in PE, people feel like the world is their oyster

 

Hours are great. If I’m not on the road (which admittedly is anywhere from 1-3x a month), I’m home for dinner with my family almost every day. I’ll answer emails until I go to bed but I’m not cranking on memos or models or anything like that.


Can’t really compare it to banking, though I guess a few relationship-based sponsors group are somewhat similar.

 

"I joined KKR because it was KKR. I didn't realize it just wanted to be buyside goldman sachs and now I'm getting killed for no Carry, help!"

Honestly for apparently intelligent people coming from top educations and sellside institutions I do wonder why people ever recruit for MF PE.

Part of me is glad because I wouldn't have as many clients as I do without them.

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