What percentage of your after tax income is devoted to housing?

There is an age old adage that your monthly housing expense should never be above 30% of your after tax income that I think is completely irrelevant in today's rental and housing market.

I'm curious to see what the average renter's/home owner's monthly expense including everything (HOA, utilities, PITI, etc) relative to after tax income is on a monthly basis.

I am currently at 32% in a major SE metro.

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I'm at roughly 30%, not counting 401k contributions, healthcare, year end bonus etc. just the percentage of cold hard cash wired to my account every month. This includes utilities, internet, and streaming subscriptions.

20% gross including utilities, internet, streaming subscriptions

p.s. I have no roommates

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Mine is around 17% gross and maybe 24%ish net salary. Bonus drives that down to 11%/16.5% respectively.

Living with a girlfriend is pretty cool. On my own you'd double all of those.

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I'm at about 55% net/33% gross, but have a mortgage/prop taxes, etc (living in an investment prop.), so I have been able to write off the interest (at least for now). If you factored in the write-offs for prop taxes/interest, it probably knocks me back down to between 35-40% net, but that's also not factoring in that I'm (theoretically) building equity unless the housing market blows up before I am able to sell.

EDIT: should mention that this is on monthly income only, does not include bonus.

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How's that working out for you? Did you have to downgrade on location/interiors/lifestyle to go this route?

I always think about it, but then I remember I'm an apartment/townhouse snob.

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Why do you say "at least for now" regarding interest write off? Are you over $750k? You get 100% write off of interest once you move out and its completely a rental.

 

Said that in regards to the fact that I may move out/upsize eventually. Didn't mean it with respect to the current property.

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Chicago has really hurt people on housing costs lately.

I bought 5 years ago. My condo assessments up 50%. A good chunk of that due to minimum wage hike .

Property taxes up 50%. And no they can’t be deducted.

My best friend was also paying 3k a month rent.

In 5 years I’ve went from paying 5,500 a month on my mortgage (after value of tax deductions rent etc) where 2500 a month of that was mortgage principle to now I’m paying 11k a month with the same amount paid in principle. Though probably adding a roommate soon.

Had a lean bonus year too. NYC real estate likely to have some problems now too with end of salt deductions. But Chicago was hiking taxes etc too.

 

21-23% of gross*, depending on what you classify as housing costs vs. other expenses. House in the 'burbs in the southeast.

*Because we are wildly risk-averse, my wife and I treat my salary as our income (which functions as the denominator here). We bank her salary and bank my bonus. Including those would skew the figures lower and reveal the crazed depths of our fiscal conservatism.

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Sort of similar situation, but we have a pretty decent house in a cheaper suburb. We're ~11% but thats on a 15 year mortgage and will likely pay it off relatively soon.

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Just curious (not criticizing-trying to learn your strategy) .......why didn't you do a 30 year, and just pay ahead? I'm a Mortgage Banker btw.

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26.6% of gross for a 1 BR in NYC (great neighborhood, older building). I kind of have to chuckle at the people not in SF/NYC who complain about housing costs. I would give my left nut for housing as "expensive" as Chicago/Boston/Atlanta.

 

6.2% of gross for a 3-bed condo in the city. Love you, Chicago real estate prices.

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Amen! We're in a pretty small 1-bedroom condo in Chicago at 3.5% of our total gross income (married). Living below your means is pretty underrated IMO...

 

Really should be adding in the cost of having a car when comparing tier-2 cities to places like NYC as you probably will need a car to get around in the former and not in the latter.

For example, it you spend $1500/month on rent on a $100K salary, that's 18% gross spend on housing. But taking into account having a car at say~$500/month (payment, gas, insurance, etc), then that number becomes 24%, much closer to what people pay in places like New York.

To be fair, you should also add-in the cost of getting around in NYC too (taxis, subway, etc). But even then, I would say the difference isn't quite as pronounced as it originally may seem.

 

cars and living with ya women absolutely impact these metrics. Need to bake those in (garage, gas, insurance, sharing a bedroom) and then look at it, on a gross basis. If you want to live downtown, with walkability, alone, in a cool city, you will probably be spending 30%+ once adjusted for the factors mentioned.

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"Commissions and fees" cars and living with ya women absolutely impact these metrics. Need to bake those in (garage, gas, insurance, sharing a bedroom) and then look at it, on a gross basis. If you want to live downtown, with walkability, alone, in a cool city, you will probably be spending 30%+ once adjusted for the factors mentioned.

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I live in a major metro in the Midwest and I'm at about 32% if i exclude Grocery, Discretionary and Student Loans (this last one is about half my housing - worth every penny though). 52% for everything (including car payment and gasoline costs). I should also note that I don't dine out as much as I used to which has saved me a ton of money. I'm a good cook (used to be an assistant chef - not accredited or anything just got really good at it) and got back in the groove of really enjoying making my own meals (I hated commercial cooking and it took me years to shake off that damage).

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I lived in Nashville during the absolute time rent-wise. I hear talk of 2-3 months free these days, meanwhile I still, in 2018, in a much bigger market, have not hit my 2015 Nashville rent.

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I live in London and I'm at about 38% of after tax. This has improved massively in the last year due to promotion etc. I have stayed in the same flat since my first year working where I was at about 50% but love the flat so much I chose to stay when my roommate moved out and and girlfriend moved in. I'm happy there so plan is to stay for the forseeable future and watch that percentage continue to drop as my salary increases.

 

38% in North Dallas.

Note: I've spoken with many Class A++ Developers in the Texas market and they are rather bullish that the majority of their tenants (young professionals/millennials) will shell out up to 60% for the high-end luxury finish and amenity structure. 100+ million dollar asset manager confirmed that their best tenants are the recent graduates using their high-rise residency to network -- ie they will pay more than asking rent for the potential future benefits.

 

16% net income not including bonus. Will most likely rent forever. Don't own much stuff, so will just keep moving if rent ever tops tops 20%

 

not saying people on this forum/thread are lying (I'm assuming most people here are financially literate/savvy) BUT...being a Sr. Mortgage Banker who is ranked as one of the top producers in my area, AND working directly under the Top mortgage banker in the state....I'd say everyone reporting their DTI ratios is doing an EXCELLENT job. Most people we see closing on home loans here in SE VA...back end ratios are well above 40%. In fact, the last 5 pre-approvals I've issued, have all been over 50% back-end ratios. Not saying I recommend this type of reckless spending, just reporting the facts. I myself-- my primary residence is only 1.27% of my Gross...if I include water, electric, internet, etc...maybe 1.5%...and I live "Down Town" (if you lived here you would see why I have quotes around it) In an upscale condo/loft. This is only including my salary+ commission from doing mortgages, not my investments, rental income, etc

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Makes sense that most people who don't know personal finance would buy more house than they can afford. Folks tend to buy up to the amount of their loan approval.

 

you couldn't be more correct. in fact...most people I say "you're pre-approved up to 250k" ....call me back later and say.... "hey I found a home at 260k, can we still make an offer?"
very rarely am I adjusting my pre approval letters downwards....which is saddening at times--- as I always tell my clients "I can **always **approve you for more than you can afford" .

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If I play my cards right, I'm about to go from 39% net/26% gross to 12% net/8% gross, and that will include parking. Northern Virginia

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I'm in London and it's c22% inclusive of all bills. I share an apartment but have my own bathroom. I suppose I could get my own place, but right now I don't see the point as during the week I barely spend any time at home aside from dinner and sleeping and the apartment is nice enough to bring girls to. Plus I'm on a very favourable contract that I'll surely step down on if I move. I'd rather just save for now. When I first started working, the same place was c40-45% or so of my net income, but over time that has risen while as my rent really hasn't.

 

Moved to Austin a year and a half ago from NYC. After concessions, we were initially paying $1,600 for a 900 SF one bedroom in one of the newest buildings downtown. Definitely beats the $3,000 we were writing on the UWS...

Have since bought a 3 BR 3 BA home just outside of downtown and are now paying 21% of our net monthly pay (inclusive of HOA and utilities), not including year end bonus. Have recently received a sizable promotion that skews that percentage somewhat, but definitely still favorable.

 

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