I've been struggling with this search for a while now. I don't think my standards are too specific but was wondering if any guys here want the same qualities I do.
I think most would agree that physical appearance is the most important of such qualities because that's the 1st thing we observe in each other. Beyond that, though, I find more and more females have become too impressionable due to exposure to pop culture.
As a 21 year old, I feel that myself and others are in an increasingly losing situation. Some of the things I look for:
-No "clubbing": I think this speaks for itself.
-Lack of grandiose tattoos: It seems more and more are going this way.
-Fakeness: Plastic surgery and excessive use of warpaint (makeup) are huge turnoffs.
-Doesn't smoke/Do Drugs/Only Drinks w/ Moderation: Same as the clubbing bullet.
-Good moral foundation: There is something to be said about those who haven't been sold into accepting society's trash and movements such as rap/hip-hop culture infiltrating suburban America.
-Independent: No hipster/frat/artsy/trendy/etc...Just simple,stylish, and elegant who owns a lot of dresses.
-Preferably NOT in the Financial Services Industry.
Ideally, I guess this is the blueprint for someone I'd eventually like to start a family with (cooking skills=MUST, lol). I have my own opinions regarding who the culprit is for this transformation but am interested in having a discussion what others think. Am I setting myself up for disappointment or am I being too cynical?