ArcherVice:

How did you picture that playing out in your mind?

Which part? I didn't even complain. I've been waiting on my new employment contract for 7 months now ... In this new entity, it's 4 partners and myself, plus the back office woman (who btw thinks she's my boss ..). Are you saying that I'm wrong in this?

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sounds like horseshit to me first thing today, go apologize to the partners, then start looking for a new job

once you land the new job, quit at the most inconvenient time possible to fuck up the firm as much as possible there's something to be said for professionalism here, but doing the above will probably make you feel happier on the inside

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  1. it is not fair, you're justifiably mad

  2. never, ever, ever talk about your compensation versus someone else, it should always be on your own merit

  3. time in the office does not translate to productivity

  4. apologize, say you overreacted, and then calmly say something like "what I was trying to get across, was that I think that the new incentive structure does not compensate me as equitably as the prior one, and here's why: on X deal under the old structure, the bonus would've been A......" I would also add in something like how much you've loved being there (if you did), and then see if there's a way for you to get some carry worked in there

  5. if by her making 2x your salary that means she makes 2x your overall comp, you should leave that firm. if salary is a miniscule part of your comp and most of it's from carry, fees, profit share, etc., don't worry about it, overall comp is what matters if you want to measure yourself against someone

  6. clarify roles with the partners, explain how your interactions have been if she's truly giving you orders and treating you like you're inferior; but also ask yourself "how am I treating her?"

  7. all of that said, and I'm quoting Harold & Kumar here "the universe tends to unfold as it should."

Godspeed

 
thebrofessor:

1. it is not fair, you're justifiably mad

2. never, ever, ever talk about your compensation versus someone else, it should always be on your own merit

3. time in the office does not translate to productivity

4. apologize, say you overreacted, and then calmly say something like "what I was trying to get across, was that I think that the new incentive structure does not compensate me as equitably as the prior one, and here's why: on X deal under the old structure, the bonus would've been A......" I would also add in something like how much you've loved being there (if you did), and then see if there's a way for you to get some carry worked in there

5. if by her making 2x your salary that means she makes 2x your overall comp, you should leave that firm. if salary is a miniscule part of your comp and most of it's from carry, fees, profit share, etc., don't worry about it, overall comp is what matters if you want to measure yourself against someone

6. all of that said, and I'm quoting Harold & Kumar here "the universe tends to unfold as it should."

Godspeed

Thanks. Her overall comp is twice mine. Also, I didn't compare, I made sure to speak conceptually only. Their logic was like 5 year olds, telling me I'm saying and doing things that aren't true. And trust me, she is far from being anywhere as productive as I am. They even said "If she leaves, we can easily find another but we need to keep you happy", yet they refused to accept my reasoning or anything other than what they've already decided.

Don't waste your life only thinking about money and prestige
 

Wow, you touched on pretty much everything. I have nothing to add.

thebrofessor:

1. it is not fair, you're justifiably mad

2. never, ever, ever talk about your compensation versus someone else, it should always be on your own merit

3. time in the office does not translate to productivity

4. apologize, say you overreacted, and then calmly say something like "what I was trying to get across, was that I think that the new incentive structure does not compensate me as equitably as the prior one, and here's why: on X deal under the old structure, the bonus would've been A......" I would also add in something like how much you've loved being there (if you did), and then see if there's a way for you to get some carry worked in there

5. if by her making 2x your salary that means she makes 2x your overall comp, you should leave that firm. if salary is a miniscule part of your comp and most of it's from carry, fees, profit share, etc., don't worry about it, overall comp is what matters if you want to measure yourself against someone

6. clarify roles with the partners, explain how your interactions have been if she's truly giving you orders and treating you like you're inferior; but also ask yourself "how am I treating her?"

7. all of that said, and I'm quoting Harold & Kumar here "the universe tends to unfold as it should."

Godspeed

If the glove don't fit, you must acquit!
 

The only reason I brought it up is because I was ambushed with the fact that the bonus structure is like this. Went to lunch with one of the partners the other day and it was sprung on me, followed by "you're wrong, it's completely normal. I didn't even know there was a difference in BO vs FO."

And today, the other two took me aside over drinks to basically have a go at me, and blaming me for "being unhappy".

Don't waste your life only thinking about money and prestige
 

You would expect a shift from a profit share to a % of salary bonus would be a huge difference in value - can you shed some light on the difference you're likely to see as a figure?

Because if it's substantial that just isn't right..

It sounds like the way you brought it up with the partners may have been the problem.. I recently found that an employee that is essentially a 2-day-a-week receptionist earns, pro-rata, over double my analyst salary for doing nothing - so I get where you're coming from. But you gotta be careful how you bring these issues to the table. I wouldn't advise saying 'I should earn more then her because I'm front office, she's back office' as it sounds pretentious.

This would be a perfect opportunity to renegotiate your salary and your leading argument is that the new pay structure is essentially a step backward. You've posted a couple of times about the work you do and it seems you're heavily involved in lots of areas of the business - so I don't think you will have much trouble letting your bosses know how much you do. Forget the back office staff and focus on yourself, using the knowledge of the back office salary to work out what you can effectively target in terms of salary negotiation but don't bring them up in your argument.

 
GMG:

You would expect a shift from a profit share to a % of salary bonus would be a huge difference in value - can you shed some light on the difference you're likely to see as a figure?

Because if it's substantial that just isn't right..

It sounds like the way you brought it up with the partners may have been the problem.. I recently found that an employee that is essentially a 2-day-a-week receptionist earns, pro-rata, over double my analyst salary for doing nothing - so I get where you're coming from. But you gotta be careful how you bring these issues to the table. I wouldn't advise saying 'I should earn more then her because I'm front office, she's back office' as it sounds pretentious.

This would be a perfect opportunity to renegotiate your salary and your leading argument is that the new pay structure is essentially a step backward. You've posted a couple of times about the work you do and it seems you're heavily involved in lots of areas of the business - so I don't think you will have much trouble letting your bosses know how much you do. Forget the back office staff and focus on yourself, using the knowledge of the back office salary to work out what you can effectively target in terms of salary negotiation but don't bring them up in your argument.

It isn't just pro-rata. Assume, for instance that you're earning, whilst working 80 hour weeks and effectively bringing in all the money for the firm, and you earn USD 50K plus up to 50% bonus = USD 75K all in. Assume a back office woman, who btw always asks you to help with resizing logos, fixing letterheads (basically technically illiterate), and earns USD 100K + up to 50% bonus = 150K all in. And she works 40 hours a week.

And, I joined the firm early when there wasn't much going on. Also, in this country it's against the law to make an employee worse off than before in these cases. I explained (without bringing in the legal stuff) that I was expecting the ratio (10% profit share compared to 30% profit share the partners got) to remain within the incentive structure, but they refused to accept my logic, as simple and clear as it is. And then they started saying "Yeh, but you're not a shareholder" etc... Honestly, it was like talking to children making excuses.

Don't waste your life only thinking about money and prestige
 

This doesn't make sense. If they're cutting your compensation by a significant amount, they would know and there's a reason. You're either not as valuable as you think (at least in their eyes, or there was a significant communication error around your compensation. You should bounce if you can line something similar up. Good luck.

 

For those saying I may not be as valuable as I think I am, I doubt it. We don't survive solely on mgmt fees. We have a lot of other projects that we do for cashflow purposes, and I run all of them. Basically I am the only real source of revenue. In addition, I created a tool that saved us having to get a second analyst (it creates automated reports, learnt coding to create it), and we're spinning the tool out (I AM) into a new business to create revenue (which it already has started doing via licensing).

The CEO did know this woman prior to hiring her and they do seem very close, but if this is why, it's idiotic. If I were to leave now, given the talent that exists in this country + the difficulty to get people from abroad (I'm European with an MSc in Finance) and the time required to find someone, they would be in deep shit.

It just doesn't make sense. Furthermore, these guys always encouraged open communication yet when I communicated (forcefully pretty much), I got scolded for having a damn opinion.

Don't waste your life only thinking about money and prestige
 

First off I agree with you that this sucks. However, one thing that you should realize is that unless you are the one bringing in new business you are really still a cost center regardless of whether or not fees are being generated from your work. It sounds as though you are merely doing the work that is brought in (correct me if I'm wrong). For that you should be paid a fair wage. Sounds like maybe you aren't. I'd just be careful in that distinction especially if its a primary point in your argument.

 
Orkid:

For those saying I may not be as valuable as I think I am, I doubt it. We don't survive solely on mgmt fees. We have a lot of other projects that we do for cashflow purposes, and I run all of them. Basically I am the only real source of revenue. In addition, I created a tool that saved us having to get a second analyst (it creates automated reports, learnt coding to create it), and we're spinning the tool out (I AM) into a new business to create revenue (which it already has started doing via licensing).

The CEO did know this woman prior to hiring her and they do seem very close, but if this is why, it's idiotic. If I were to leave now, given the talent that exists in this country + the difficulty to get people from abroad (I'm European with an MSc in Finance) and the time required to find someone, they would be in deep shit.

It just doesn't make sense. Furthermore, these guys always encouraged open communication yet when I communicated (forcefully pretty much), I got scolded for having a damn opinion.

Do you have an IP assignment agreement with them? If not, take your tool and license it on your own. You created it; you own it (unless you signed your rights away).

 

Ignoring the other woman for a moment, the real issue here is that they invited you into the partnership, never papered it, then let you work for 7+ months before kicking you out of the partnership and putting you into a much lower value compensation structure. They have basically committed fraud, and you really have no recourse other than to try to find a better gig.

 
RLC1:

Ignoring the other woman for a moment, the real issue here is that they invited you into the partnership, never papered it, then let you work for 7+ months before kicking you out of the partnership and putting you into a much lower value compensation structure. They have basically committed fraud, and you really have no recourse other than to try to find a better gig.

It is papered. It's in my employment contract, but they're trying to change it and convince me that I'll be better off ! And they now expect me to wait another year on top of the one + I've been here to receive my bonus, because until now it was based on them deciding to pay out a bonus, but clearly since the merger into a listed environment it was more beneficial to them, the shareholders, to reinvest every penny. It was basically a reverse listing.

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InvertedMooning:

I remember going through your posts before. Just to clarify, is your partnership stake legally bound?

It's profit share, no equity, but it is legally bound. Absolutely. It's in my employment contract which also formed part of my work permit here. I've been super accommodating of the fact that it's a young company, and have been putting everything into this firm, and I think they're trying to exploit that fact.

Don't waste your life only thinking about money and prestige
 

If you have a legal claim, this should be a fairly clear situation. First, re-read your contract to make sure you're understanding the terms correctly. Consult a lawyer, if necessary. While I generally wouldn't recommend a litigious posture, if you are contractually entitled to a share of the profits, you should not forego it, especially if you are doing a considerable amount of the work.

I would try once more to make your case to the partners, using the negotiating advice provided by thebrofessor. Make it absolutely clear what your interpretation of the agreement is. If they continue to be unreceptive, seriously consider legal action to have the terms of your agreement enforced. But don't expect your career at this firm to survive legal action. All good faith will be lost and you will be openly antagonistic (they, apparently, have lobbed the first shots). Starting now, be careful not to do anything that could be misconstrued as damaging to the firm (taking client lists, becoming inefficient, etc.)

If you are indeed as valuable as you perceive yourself to be, then you really have the leverage. Power dynamics are such that the opposing party isn't going to inform you that you have considerable control. In fact, they are incentivized to do the opposite- convince you that you are insignificant and it is by their virtuous grace that you have been allowed you to continue to work for them. That may be what is going on. If they actually would be screwed/seriously inconvenienced by your departure, either one of two things is true:

1) They don't know how valuable you are 2) They do know how valuable you are, but are going to play hardball because...(they think they can defraud you, they think you'll chicken out, etc.)

One last piece of advice- do not view yourself through the lens of this back office person. Favoritism is a reality distorting- it provides almost no useful information about your value, which should be your principal concern. If you can, find out what a competent person in your position earns (profit share and/or salary + bonus).

Bene qui latuit, bene vixit- Ovid
 

It's BS what is happening to you but unfortunately it's not out of the ordinary at smaller or start up firms. The above advice is good and I'd follow it, but I'd also add in some quantifiable information such as doing a super simple spreadsheet showing what the original deal was to what it has become. I'm guessing you have enough granularity into what a 10% profit share would be compared to a simple % bonus so you should show that. If you have comps as to what is industry standard in your business, show some of those as well. Another unfortunate thing, and I don't know what euro country you're in because it varies, is that running a traded company makes it far more difficult to give any employee a set percentage of profits because it's simply out of the ordinary for a public company and you may have to rewrite the by-laws of the company you reversed into and run it through a board remuneration committee who frankly isn't going to think as much about you personally and more about shareholders and their personal reputation in the market. In addition, and I've been involved in public companies in London, Luxembourg and Frankfurt, publicly traded companies over there just don't pay the same as in the US. It's partially the culture and since the 07/08 crash public sentiment has really turned against high pay at publicly traded companies.

You may be able to litigate but I'd use that as the absolute last step if at all. If you're earlier in your career that can just be a killer and you don't want to kill your career over what will be a relatively small amount of money.

 

Thanks. I'm actually working in South Africa, but I am European. I will certainly not bring up any laws or litigation, because I'd much rather just quit in that case. Regardless of what I feel has been done to me, I'm not taking it personally, and I wouldn't want to have an adverse effect on anyone else's life just because of it, when I can rather just walk away. I will be seeking new opportunities now in Europe, and try to be as professional as possible whilst continuing to work hard, as I do want a rec for my MBA apps. I'm applying to INSEAD, and although this is somewhat of roadblock, I can't imagine continuing at this firm with these people. Hopefully I can find something comparable where I enjoy it and postpone my MBA matric another year or so.

Don't waste your life only thinking about money and prestige
 

Good course of action. Just find something else closer to home. It's a bitch because it won't exactly be easy to interview from there but once work people do certain things that fuck you over and leave a bad taste, and that can be bosses, partners, co-workers, people at other firms on deals, whatever (I suppose if a subordinate did it you'd just fire them) it's tough to ever go back with the same attitude. Believe me, I've had partners screw me over in the past and no matter what was said or done after it just was never going to be the same. You can bitch and moan and litigate but unless there's a solid case with a well papered trail saying you're owed $X and $X is greater than the cost of legal fees, it's usually best just to leave and wait for them to screw up and have them do something similar in the future and have it blow up in their face in a big way, because they will do it again and it will blow up.

 
Orkid:

Thanks. I'm actually working in South Africa, but I am European. I will certainly not bring up any laws or litigation, because I'd much rather just quit in that case. Regardless of what I feel has been done to me, I'm not taking it personally, and I wouldn't want to have an adverse effect on anyone else's life just because of it, when I can rather just walk away.
I will be seeking new opportunities now in Europe, and try to be as professional as possible whilst continuing to work hard, as I do want a rec for my MBA apps. I'm applying to INSEAD, and although this is somewhat of roadblock, I can't imagine continuing at this firm with these people. Hopefully I can find something comparable where I enjoy it and postpone my MBA matric another year or so.

Fuck that stance. If they valued you enough to give you a profit share and put it in writing. Make them fucking pay for it. You don't get to the top buy tip toeing around everyone's feelings. They are essentially standing on your neck right now. Forcing you to choose between a job that comes with a fucked up, what is appearing to be a fraudulent situation and no job.

If I was you I would be bending them over and shoving a huge rusty pipe up their assholes if they tried to do this to me.

Follow the shit your fellow monkeys say @shitWSOsays Life is hard, it's even harder when you're stupid - John Wayne
 

I support the OP, but just want some clarification. Is this woman doing BO in the sense we all think or is she basically an office manager. I ask because someone can not be in a FO role, but still incredibly important to a firm.

That being said, whenever I feel underpaid I give a firm a chance to rectify it and then just leave if it doesn't happen. Getting into a battle with superiors is almost never worth it and a waste of time.

Good luck dude, this is a BS situation.

 

She calls herself "Group Financial Manager" ... but before we hired her the partners nicknamed her "office slave", and it was always the case that she was getting employed in order to take over all admin shit, e.g. booking flights etc etc. She also does the bookkeeping/accounting, but is not a qualified accountant or anything. Even one of the partners today said "We can easily find another back office person, but we have to keep you happy" ... but the rest of the conversation seemed like the exact opposite.

Don't waste your life only thinking about money and prestige
 

Don't take most of our advices seriously, remember this is a public forum.

That said, here is some advice: If you have blown up, yelled at your partners, are pissed off, etc... cool down. Put your head down and get back to work. Potentially ask for a week off to refocus.

You need to have another opportunity before you shut the door. If you are set on leaving spend more time looking for something else, but do NOT quit with nothing else. Also - do not jump ship at the first opportunity that comes your way. Take your time - you are still learning where you are. That's invaluable no matter how the people around you are treating you. USD 75k is chicken sh.t, you'll make a lot more later on in your career. Don't focus on the money. They are treating you unfairly - that's what you should be upset about, but remember those people can give you references later on, don't piss them off. SA is a very small market as well...

I could go on about legally binding contract etc... But 1) you are not invested in this company 2) you are too junior 3) the money you were to gain from it is too small. Forget about taking them to court etc...

Focus on one thing: Find a new job, and take it easy. An MBA at INSEAD? Why not, but if you are only 7 months in the job I'd look at another job first.

Last piece of advise: NEVER ever ever bad mouth your employee when you will be interviewing elsewhere, make up another excuse why you want to move 1) too small 2) you've reached a ceiling and not learning 3) company since going public has changed to what you were used to and you don't like the changes etc....

 
BTbanker:

Am I the only one who sees that she's fucking the partner(s)?

Damn right. She has some kind of connection to them. She fucking somebody to have that much leverage.

I also think it is interesting that the partners are now coming to you to take you out to lunch and try to calm you down. To me, this shows that they value you. They have to appease you and keep you working. As it has been spoken before...top brass knows the difference between a show horse and a work horse...

Of course they value you.....you fucking built a system that they're about to license and make money from. You should either quit showing them how that shit works and prepare to leave, possibly tweak it, and use it somewhere else...or, push it all the way through, and instead of fighting about a salary, start politicking to get your "name" on that shit. Get a piece of that action or at least part of the credit. Wouldn't that look great on your resume....

 

Amazed no one has pointed out the obvious, but I'll do it...

This other woman's salary should be COMPLETELY irrelevant to you. Stop thinking it matters in any way. There will always be people who make more than you. Don't use that as the yardstick of whether you're being treated fairly. If that woman got a pay cut, the money would not go to you. How much she makes does not affect you in any way.

The ONLY thing that matters is how much you are making now compared to how much you'd make be going elsewhere. Could you get a better deal elsewhere? If so, leave. If not, stop complaining. But how much someone else makes should not enter your thinking at all. Just focus on improving your own comp, not whether your comp is more/less than someone else's.

 

I kinda did. I said she is a favored employee and that the favoritism lens distorts reality. He should focus on his value and whether or not his compensation approximates that value.

Bene qui latuit, bene vixit- Ovid
 

Textbook nepotism/cronyism. She's either a)sheboinking somebody, as stated before or b) related to somebody important (see partner, regulator, investor, etc.)

If this is the case, there really isn't anything to do. Consider it a cost the firm has to front to function. Get your compensation to a level you feel is appropriate. Disregard her: she's just part of the firms pay-to-play expenses.

"Yes. Money has been a little bit tight lately, but at the end of my life, when I'm sitting on my yacht, am I gonna be thinking about how much money I have? No. I'm gonna be thinking about how many friends I have and my children and my comedy albums."
 

What are you an idiot?

How much other people in the firm get paid is none of your fucking concern. Your comp is triangulated based on (1) market comp for your seat; (2) how profitable the firm is; (3) how important you are to the firm / how much they'd care if you left / your actual ability & willingness to leave.

You said that the comp structure worked out just fine for you, so it sounds like you were happy with your comp until you learned a "lesser" person was making more than you. Sure, that would that irk me too.. But the extent to which its become an issue for you and the fact that you were dumb enough to bitch about it in that manner to the partners suggests your maturity level isn't up to snuff.

If you feel you're being under comped, go to the partners with cold hard facts and keep your alternative options in your back pocket if they don't hit your bid. Don't go to them with some sorry ass weak shit like "that person's making more than me and they're support staff."

I'd fire you just for being dickless and lacking the balls to negotiate like a man.

 
Marcus_Halberstram:

What are you an idiot?

How much other people in the firm get paid is none of your fucking concern. Your comp is triangulated based on (1) market comp for your seat; (2) how profitable the firm is; (3) how important you are to the firm / how much they'd care if you left / your actual ability & willingness to leave.

You said that the comp structure worked out just fine for you, so it sounds like you were happy with your comp until you learned a "lesser" person was making more than you. Sure, that would that irk me too.. But the extent to which its become an issue for you and the fact that you were dumb enough to bitch about it in that manner to the partners suggests your maturity level isn't up to snuff.

If you feel you're being under comped, go to the partners with cold hard facts and keep your alternative options in your back pocket if they don't hit your bid. Don't go to them with some sorry ass weak shit like "that person's making more than me and they're support staff."

I'd fire you just for being dickless and lacking the balls to negotiate like a man.

I don't think I'm an idiot, but how can I ever know for sure.

With regards to your points, I did not go to them to bitch. They came to me and said I was unhappy, because I mentioned these things to one of the partners. I made sure that I was only explaining things conceptually, and throughout, telling them that I may be completely wrong because things may not work the same way here.

The main part is that I've been working here for 1 year and 2 months now, and have yet to see a bonus (promised). I had 10% profit share, and then the merger happened 7 months ago and have been promised a new and better employment contract since then. The BO woman got her new employment contract (she joined the already listed entity, not the startup) 3 weeks ago, even though I've been asking for ages. Now it came around to it, and they're giving me something that is much worse.

They expect me to wait another full year before I see any kind of bonus, at which point, my maximum amount in bonus I can receive will be half of what the BO woman can receive.

To BTBanker who said she's fucking someone, wouldn't surprise me... The big partner that the others follow is married, but he's that type. My girlfriends friend receives texts from him weekly saying things like "you're hot, what are you wearing?" etc ... and he was constantly hitting on one of our female interns saying things like "you're so sexy, do you know that?" ... super inappropriate stuff.

The BO woman looks like a trucker with that belly though, so maybe not.

Don't waste your life only thinking about money and prestige
 
Orkid:
Marcus_Halberstram:

What are you an idiot?

How much other people in the firm get paid is none of your fucking concern. Your comp is triangulated based on (1) market comp for your seat; (2) how profitable the firm is; (3) how important you are to the firm / how much they'd care if you left / your actual ability & willingness to leave.

You said that the comp structure worked out just fine for you, so it sounds like you were happy with your comp until you learned a "lesser" person was making more than you. Sure, that would that irk me too.. But the extent to which its become an issue for you and the fact that you were dumb enough to bitch about it in that manner to the partners suggests your maturity level isn't up to snuff.

If you feel you're being under comped, go to the partners with cold hard facts and keep your alternative options in your back pocket if they don't hit your bid. Don't go to them with some sorry ass weak shit like "that person's making more than me and they're support staff."

I'd fire you just for being dickless and lacking the balls to negotiate like a man.

I don't think I'm an idiot, but how can I ever know for sure.

With regards to your points, I did not go to them to bitch. They came to me and said I was unhappy, because I mentioned these things to one of the partners. I made sure that I was only explaining things conceptually, and throughout, telling them that I may be completely wrong because things may not work the same way here.

The main part is that I've been working here for 1 year and 2 months now, and have yet to see a bonus (promised). I had 10% profit share, and then the merger happened 7 months ago and have been promised a new and better employment contract since then. The BO woman got her new employment contract (she joined the already listed entity, not the startup) 3 weeks ago, even though I've been asking for ages. Now it came around to it, and they're giving me something that is much worse.

They expect me to wait another full year before I see any kind of bonus, at which point, my maximum amount in bonus I can receive will be half of what the BO woman can receive.

To BTBanker who said she's fucking someone, wouldn't surprise me... The big partner that the others follow is married, but he's that type. My girlfriends friend receives texts from him weekly saying things like "you're hot, what are you wearing?" etc ... and he was constantly hitting on one of our female interns saying things like "you're so sexy, do you know that?" ... super inappropriate stuff.

The BO woman looks like a trucker with that belly though, so maybe not.

So if I understand this properly, in the old entity you didn't have an equity stake, but did have a profit sharing plan written into your contract that was between yourself and the old entity. They created a new entity and merged it with the old entity, thus voiding your previous contract, but had not provided you with a new contract between yourself and the new entity. Now that they are, the new employment contract has identical salary but much less upside. Is this correct?

Do you have access to the firm's finances? Guessing you do considering the size. Where is the money they are taking from you going, aside from this secretary? What was the reasoning behind doing this entity merger in the first place? It's still only the four of you at the firm?

I'd leave. I wouldn't even try negotiating. Sounds like a shit place to work TBH.

 

Well for what its worth, I'm fairly certain you are in fact an idiot.

The partners came to you and said "this is what that support staff member is making, how does that make you feel?"

Your story is pivoting more frequently than a shitty start up and your tone sounds like that of a child. If it wasn't for the certified star I'd be 100% certain this is a troll.

But I'll humor you and proffer the following advice:

Bottom line: regardless of the circumstances, based on the exchanges you described above, you completely mishandled this and likely severely damaged your reputation and career at your current firm.

Secondarily, if they're poking you around like you're a pair of testes in a low hanging nut sack, you should probably wisen up (without ruffling people's feathers; although too late for that now) and find a better gig. Although I would say, based on the maturity you've demonstrated thus far, its very likely that these delays are a result of the merger/administration... if however they really just "didn't get around to" paying you a bonus that you were due, its clearly time to hit the eject button ASAP.

 

dont benchmark yourself against the BO receptionist. what matters is your comp banchmarked to the partners. you might not have any equity but you got 10% rev share in your contract! damn youre a lucky bastard! i did not really catch if your contract already changed to the %of salary bonus but I fully understand why they want that: to rip you off.

 
markb:

dont benchmark yourself against the BO receptionist. what matters is your comp banchmarked to the partners. you might not have any equity but you got 10% rev share in your contract! damn youre a lucky bastard! i did not really catch if your contract already changed to the %of salary bonus but I fully understand why they want that: to rip you off.

It hasn't changed yet, I would have to sign it. I explained to them exactly that, that before I got 10% profit share and they each had 30%, and they told me that ratio would remain the same. Now, they're trying to change it.

My point, and they played dumb pretending they didn't understand it, but surely it's extremely clear, was that it should continue to be the case that my incentive package should go in line with theirs as before, whatever the new instruments used (stock options, cash). They were saying, "oh ok, fine, so then you don't get stock options, and you get only cash as a ratio" ... and I said "well, it should be based on all in incentive" and they said "well, you're not a shareholder, we founded the company" ...

Honestly, reasoning like children, right?

Don't waste your life only thinking about money and prestige
 

The big partner just took me aside and said that I do very good work and they like me, and they want to compensate me accordingly. Before he said this, I said "I want to apologize if I was rude" ...

I said that I will just trust that I will be priced fairly. My point was to reduce the tension, so that I could go on working well.

I'll keep looking for opportunities now more calmly than under the circumstances prior to this talk, where I wanted to get away asap.

Don't waste your life only thinking about money and prestige
 

This kind of shit is par for the course at "start up" PE firms. It should be part of the job description. I have to put up with being at the beck and call of technology illiterate morons who are better compensated than I am, I have to help out with a zillion things that should be taken care of by others (IT work, scheduling training for the accountants, moving heavy boxes, etc). Bonuses are never what they say my target is, always some random (sometimes significant, sometimes not) amount taken off for bullshit reasons that they are unable to explain. Or they explain it in such a way that it is clear that they are disappointed in me because of somebody else's mistake.

But when push comes to shove, and I look at what jobs I could legitimately switch to, it's just not worth it. I would either take a big compensation hit, or end up somewhere which would have it's own set of bullshit issues. Honestly, it's just not worth it to me.

If you want my opinion, yeah, it's not fair and you shouldn't have to put up with it. Changing your profit share to regular cash bonuses sucks, and it sucks doubly when it is evident (because of the super well paid backoffice lady) that there's enough cash around to improve your comp. So put your money where your mouth is and find a better paid job. However, if you cannot honestly do that, and if you recognize that every workplace is going to have some downsides, maybe you'll realize that you're better off staying. It's up to you.

 

Sounds like you just need to man up and ask for what you want. If a BO employee ,regardless of how talented she might be (which doesn't sound too talented by the way you describe it) is making 2x your all in comp, there is something wrong. Sounds like you've brought it up to the partners and they have just brushed you off. In my opinion you need to just put it on the line. Think of how you want to be fairly compensated whether it be more money or less time in the office, or both, create a little presentation as to why you deserve more, get both of the guys together, give it to them straight, and don't let them worm out of it. If they don't give you what you want or try to put it off again, then I would just accept it and immediately start looking for new jobs. You've been working for a year right? Have you taken any vacation? I would max out your vacation days and take a week or two off while searching for new jobs and then just bail on that firm as soon as possible. Don't waste time on people who don't value you.

 

Let me ask you this. You did say that your firm was merged into a larger, listed entity? If that's the case, then maybe your partners don't have the negotiation power to keep paying themselves and you the amount they want to. Also, if that's the case it sounds like the "Group Finance Manager" is a plant from the larger entity/parent company. If so, this makes a lot of sense and explains the high salary, short hours, and selective tasks. And your partners may not be able to do anything about it.

Also, in such a small firm, do your partners regard you as FO? Are they driving the new business and you handle all the reconciliations and reporting? You said you handle "all the day to day activities".

 

Am I missing something?

You had a 10% profit share. The partners had 30%. There are 4 partners.

Either you're confused because that makes 130%, or you were making more than the partners because 10% is greater than 7.5%.

Seems like the firm pays the most junior people the most, so new solution will be to apply for a back office, temp job at said firm.

 

I would tell them to fuck off. If they don't appreciate what you do for the company then tell them you are going to leave. You agreed to work with the expectation of percentage of profits. The new structure does not justly provide compensation for the work you do. Tell them you want a 200% raise and a minimum of a 50% bonus. If they say no you can tell them to do their own fucking deals, or if they ask why tell them the book keeper who doesn't do shit and cant be fired because women are now a protected class is making more than the people who actually do the work and you think that is fucking bull shit. Use this exact language. If they fire you well the are too fucking stupid to actually work for anyway.

Follow the shit your fellow monkeys say @shitWSOsays Life is hard, it's even harder when you're stupid - John Wayne
 

What's the max bonus they are fucking this guy out of? $100-150k? Then figure he'd only get 60-70% of that after layer fees. Totally not worth suing.

He has no written agreement either so good luck with that. Suing has so much downside and minimal upside.

Honestly, I'd almost say just give notice and go back to Europe. Especially considering the previous post about how you live in a horrible are or whatever. Baring this, keep working but focus 100% on other jobs. You can't completely mail it in, but you shouldn't be killing yourself. Don't alienate your bosses, but I wouldn't look to them for any kind words.

 

I at least agree with ANT on sue or go home. I'd still sue if I had a good case. (EG emails or better yet a signed contract). All else being equal, I would prefer to have more money over having less and letting dishonest assholes steal it from me. 60% of $150K is $90K, and that sure as hell beats $0 and letting someone I clearly hate keep $150k. At least my lawyer earned the $60k honestly and there is no cost to me if we lose.

This also sends an important signal to the next employer who might think about hiring you and screwing you. It sends no signal to a relatively honest employer. I actually believe it's a net positive as it helps narrow down your job search by filtering out the 10-20% of employers you probably don't want to work for. I personally would have no problem hiring someone who sued their former employer because they failed to pay as agreed (I plan on keeping my commitments).

The legal system exists for a reason. To protect people like OP. I don't know why you guys hate this advice- if OP is pissed off enough, he will follow it. And it's the credibility of this threat that keeps the dishonest employers honest. Even if people argue there's not a huge amount of upside, there's no downside and you have an ethical obligation to sue if someone genuinely screws you, they do it through dishonest means that violate civil law, and they screw you on a large scale that most people agree would be blatantly unfair. If you don't apply some sort of discipline through the legal system, they will do it again to the next guy, and you will be morally responsible.

So if you have a good case, find a lawyer and try to get some sort of reasonable settlement. You owe it to yourself and you owe it to their next potential victim. Even if you lose, think of all the agita and lost sleep and annoyance this creates for these guys! There's little downside since the bridge is already burnt.

Send a copy of the email chain home to yourself in case they delete it. In fact, send home all emails that week. Try and preserve the time stamps and mail headings.

 

He's just out of school and an admin made more than him. He probably got dicked out of like $20-40k.

Also you're not sending any message to anyone (dishonest or not), unless you broadly advertise the fact that you sued the first person you worked for out of school.

Anyone advising to sue sounds incredibly naive. This wasn't done out of "dishonesty." Your MDs weren't caucusing in their office rubbing their palms together giddy in delight after successfully weaseling you out of $40k.

Your bosses just don't care enough about you to be troubled with it. Despite how valuable you think you are, you're not. That's the bottom line. If that snub is worth the heartburn and poor form of suing over a few tens of thousands of dollars, you need to grow up. Life's a bitch. You either learn lessons from shit that gets thrown at you, or you try to find the biggest podium to stand on and scream about how you were wronged... all while covered in shit.

Not to mention that, more likely than not, OP either misunderstood or is otherwise leaving something out of this story. Because no one really gives a shit about $40k, especially in change of control scenario with a publicly traded company. This isn't the local deli acquiring the next deli over for $150k and so fucking someone on an assumed liability of $40k is a major windfall. There are people more worried about updating the stationary than paying OP's $40k bonus.

Also this isn't a malpractice case or legitimate injury case, no decent lawyer is going to waste his time on this on a purely contingent basis, so it will be money out of pocket... not to mention aggravation.

 
IlliniProgrammer:
Even if you lose, think of all the agita and lost sleep and annoyance this creates for these guys!

Is this a joke? No one is losing sleep over this. Are you under the impression these guys are going to be indicted by a grand jury and blacklisted by the SEC and FINRA?

Maybe he can get Alan Dershowitz to take his case. What planet do you live on?

On a serious note, I had always assumed you were a full grown adult. Are you still in college?

 

You don't know that. There is no downside in at least getting a free consultation. If you do work for someone and they agree to pay you $X and you get $X - $100K or a large enough sum of money, and you can prove they agreed to pay you $X, it's worth talking to a lawyer.

Just make sure they take you on contingency. I agree that paying $400/hour to lawyers would be aggravating.

It's not exactly like SA is as expensive to live in as NYC or London. And maybe OP wants a break. There's some amazing hiking and outdoor stuff in South Africa.

If someone fucks you over for $100K, you don't have to lie down and take it. Talk to a lawyer, see if they'll take you on contingency. There's no harm in asking besides a 15 minute phone call (which I understand can be expensive in South Africa).

 

No one is going to take him on contingency for 30k. Quite frankly his legal fees and traveling costs will likely outweigh any settlement, not to mention if he loses he'll be on the hook for their legal fees. The SA legal landscape is different than the USA.

It's a stupid decision in his shoes. In one of your responses above your last paragraph makes it pretty clear you are more interested in feeling better or fair than you are in actually recouping losses. Which proves the lack of knowledge and quite frankly my point.

 
Marcus_Halberstram:

Did she she remember to put a snack pack pudding in your lunch box before going to court?

She didn't even have to go to court. And yes. She also gave me fruit roll ups. :D.

If nobody ever sued their employer- even for clear cases of fraud or wage theft, we would all be paid in company scrip. It's the vindictive, childish assholes like us that help make sure your paycheck clears.

Also I thought most PE guys cleared more than $30K in bonuses. While I'm being childish, Marcus, I really wish you had supported my advice four years ago for people to live in Hoboken or Jersey City and save $20K/year and did not deride it as something for poor people. It's ok for us to disagree but people tend to remember arguments and the bad calls people made a little more when we get into ad-hominem territory.

 

We don't know how much money this is. Also it's South Africa and lawyers may earn a different amount of money there. It's not like they can pick up and leave and practice law in the US legal system.

Can anyone offer a clear and obvious downside to OP picking up the phone, making a 15 minute call and getting an actual answer from an actual employment lawyer who practices in South Africa's legal system on whether he can do this on contingency? Maybe the answer is probably no, but isn't it worth 15 minutes just to be sure? My mom sure is glad she called.

 

They're probably going to settle. My mom settled in three months. There's also stuff to do in South Africa besides suing people and OP may want a vacation.

Look OP can either listen to a whole bunch of people who know nothing about the SA legal system, or he can get on the phone with someone who happens to be an expert and might be willing to take the case for free. If the lawyer says he can probably get OP $60K, he'll work on contingency and a trial in his jurisdiction would only take two months- or depositions in SA can be done via videoconference, can someone explain how the phone call was stupid?

 

My concern with your logic is that you are essentially lumping all types of employment into a singular bucket. I think it depends on they type of employment one is in as well as the nature of the actions/resulting lawsuit. For a more blue collar worker the protection you speak to that lawsuits provide probably make sense. Limited skill, power, education, and mobility, etc. Finance is not that and furthermore is a relationship driven business with much smaller circles. A successful career is a repeated game amongst similar and connected players. A move such that you are proposing, so early, and for such insignificant sums of money in the long term is foolish - 15 minute phone call or not. At best this would be a case of circumstantial evidence favoring the OP, at worst it would be a he said / she said argument that would be tossed out of court. Regardless, the potential to tarnish ones image early in the career is not worth the risk. Suits like this could likely come out in future background checks - and regardless of right/wrong no one wants to hire a how low level money that is litigious. Any decent finance job has referral checks - I'm sure those would go over just swell. Also, we aren't talking about some politically correct image conscience conglomerate that would pay some massive sum for this issue to go away, thus rendering any negative backlash irrelevant. So no, I would not recommend taking 15 minutes to talk to an attorney.

 

Again this is not a suit I would have a problem with as a hiring manager. Especially if OP won it. I'd just be careful to make sure I was prepared to honor any contract I made with OP.

If you make a promise, you should keep it. It really is that simple. Marcus and I had a more mild disagreement in another thread on when a promise was made by an employee to take an offer, and what obligation he incurred. Both of us agreed that employees and employers should be accountable to their word.

If someone does not keep a promise or breaks a law, and you can prove it, and they have the money to pay you, and they did some really serious financial harm that a lot of other people besides yourself seem to agree was wrong or unfair, it might be a good idea to call a lawyer. That's what the civil tort system is for. Worst case it's a waste of 15 minutes.

 

No in that thread I said that you also had nothing to lose and GS had everything to lose if you caught a Sales MD lying through his teeth and breaking a promise on tape. A lawyer may take that on contingency too.

I said I'd devote more effort to getting paid what I had already earned than to some other job, all else being equal.

I do value ethics and I make a lot of sacrifices for it, just like most people do. And I probably do have a really big ego. I think it grows when I turn out to be right when people with bigger egos were trying to shout me down.

Look I hold a quantitative degree from one of the best schools in the country and I'm ecstatic about where my career is right now. In the grand scheme of things, it's hardly a martyr complex and you really don't give up that much by treating people fairly and devoting energy to teaching others to treat people fairly.

 
<span class=keyword_link><a href=/resources/skills/finance/going-concern>Going Concern</a></span>:
IlliniProgrammer:

I probably do have a really big ego

IlliniProgrammer:

Look I hold a quantitative degree from one of the best schools in the country

Interesting, tell us more

Sounds like someone's jealous. :D

(Adjust fake blond toupee, write post about Obama's birth certificate, dedicate new building)

I'm being worse than Donald in this thread, but I get to because I'm pretty darned sure I'm right on this- that at the very least a 15 minute phone call can't hurt. Also if OP is probably heading back to Europe at some point anyway, it's harder to see how an SA lawsuit follows him home. People are doing a lot of talking down to each other here and apparently I'm the only one on the side of "lawyer up". If you get accused of being a martyr, a jr high student, and having a huge ego in the same thread and various personal attacks are leveled (note that I haven't leveled any at any if you), you get to play the school card at some point.

In any case thanks for weighing in GC. I know how much you enjoy my posts.

 

This is how I'm reading everything. The guy is junior and is getting screwed on his bonus. So this isn't a mega payout. Assuming he wants to have a career in finance I don't think risking the reputation issue is worth the small potatoes you'd receive in a settlement.

If this was a senior role, fine. But at this level just leave and chalk it up to a learning experience.

 
<span class=keyword_link><a href=/company/trilantic-north-america>TNA</a></span>:

This is how I'm reading everything. The guy is junior and is getting screwed on his bonus. So this isn't a mega payout. Assuming he wants to have a career in finance I don't think risking the reputation issue is worth the small potatoes you'd receive in a settlement.

If this was a senior role, fine. But at this level just leave and chalk it up to a learning experience.

If it's a small amount or OP was made some vague promise about a bonus, OP is being a crybaby and should just quit.

If there's some sort of explicit contract and a percentage is being used and it's six figures, I really don't see how a 15 minute phone call- just to know your options- hurts.

 

The kid got screwed out of some money and it sounds like a shit situation. Just get the fuck out as soon as possible. Suing seems insane to me. It's one thing to quit a job and move on, it's a whole different ball game to sue over a relatively paltry sum and have that as a black mark against you for the next several years of your career.

And, let's be clear, most people are not like IP. If you sue someone over this, they won't take the time to understand what happened. It'll just look really, really weird. The optics are just so bad.

 
TheKing:

And, let's be clear, most people are not like IP. If you sue someone over this, they won't take the time to understand what happened. It'll just look really, really weird. The optics are just so bad.

Exactly. Let alone the expense, the risk of an adverse adjudication and a headache spanning 1.5-2yrs in a foreign country. Which doesn't even mention the effect that leaving in the middle of the week for a deposition in a foreign country will have on any current work product.

 

suing is a ridiculous waste of money in my opinion but if you do decide to take legal action please do not also follow IPs advice and tell other perspective employers that you are involved in a lawsuit of this nature in order to weed out dishonest people...that is hilariously bad advice. I cant think of a worse answer to the old "so why did you leave your last job?" question then "actually, i am currently involved in a lawsuit over my bonus which I initiated upon learning that a back-office employee appeared to be making more money then I was". I would very politely end the interview and have you ushered out of the building by staff that has very recently completed all necessary sensitivity training, possibly holding you by the elbows to ensure no slip and fall until you were safely in the lobby.

 

@"Marcus_Halberstram" is right on with all points as are others.

In addition, have any of you recommending suing actually been on the principal side of suing or being sued? It absolutely sucks. I have about 20 years in business and have been on both sides of the ball multiple times and not because I'm good or bad or have been morally wronged or I wronged, but it just happens. And after having been on both sides, I wouldn't do it for less than 7 figures, maybe upper six if it was a slam dunk. Contingent lawyers are ambulance chasers/slip and fall guys, class action guys or have the resources to go after tobacco companies so other than that you pay, and I don't know how many of you have seen legal bills for deals, but you can hardly get a lunch meeting done for $10k with a couple of lawyers. It's the same with litigators. Litigating anything beyond small claims court will cost tens of thousands of dollars AND it will suck so much time from your life that it's not worth it. Not only depositions and at worst court appearances, but collecting every document and email ever sent/received, recalling conversations you really don't recall and basically causing you so much agita that unless it's over big bucks, it's simply not worth it.

And you're not throwing down the gauntlet to the next guy saying don't screw me over because I sued the last guy(s) who did that to me. It's the OP's first job. Unless they sodomized him in some weird hazing ritual or legitimately screwed him out of millions, it will look bad. Or no one will ever know. Or they'll know and think why the fuck would I hire some kid who sued someone over tens of thousands of dollars. He may have been right, he may have been wrong, but I'm not going to take the risk.

But back to my point: being involved in lawsuits sucks and it's just not worth suing (it's never worth being sued but you don't really get to control that) unless it's a slam dunk case and there's enough money involved to make it worth it. Most other countries are also not as lawsuit happy and friendly towards litigation as we are in the US. I've done a lot of business and lived in the UK and they laugh at us because we sue at the drop of a hat. And if I remember correctly, SA law's really weird because it's a combo of British common law, Dutch civil law/Justinian code and native African law. That can't be too user friendly.

 

LOL. I still say be an asshole and sue. I got ganged up on by you guys- also in a very personal way- on finding lower rent apartments in Jersey City and my prediction for an anemic or non-existent recovery in finance four years ago. Now half of the graduating Princeton class is living in Jersey. Meanwhile the promised jobs recovery has not materialized. I got attacked for saying that you could earn more out of undergrad by going to UMich or Georgia Tech and studying CS three years ago than you could going to Harvard and going into finance. Now Google is offering better comp than GS For the same prestige and half the work. So maybe I'm only crazy half the time.

I don't think anyone is saying to advertise that you sued a former employer- obviously that would read like a threat. But if it does somehow come up and it's a sticking point that you got a legal judgment against someone because you had a signed contract representing several months worth of pay and they did not pay you what you had earned, I don't think that's a big deal for most reasonable people (Bondarb aside). They would probably do the same thing under the same circumstances.

There's no harm in a 15 minute phone call.

In any case no hard feelings guys. I'm right and you guys are wrong, but I can afford to be patient about it here, too. :D

 

dude, IP...what happened man...I like that you usually come in with an alternative, well-reasoned perspective. and you're often right. But this take is puzzling. You've always advocated taking the most reasonable approach that results in the most probable positive outcome. And the most likely outcome from suing your employer is not a good one (even if, in principle, you're right). I agree, though, no harm in a 15 minute call.

your defensiveness here is somewhat justified...that said, your aw schucks, i'm just a silly midwestern kid schtick used to have a good-natured vibe that's been conspicuously missing ever since ~year 2 at your prestigious university. Certainly, message board text doesn't always come across as intentioned.

 

I'm not going to sue, no way. Though it's not my first job, and I don't see the big issue in terms of reputation in this God forsaken country, I don't want to go through the effort, and I may need the bridges in the future if I work at an Africa focused fund in Europe, so I shouldn't burn them.

Today one of the partners asked the admin chick, who was supposedly hired to do admin shit and free front office time up, to get some knives engraved for an event we're having. The admin chick said no, because she doesn't have time apparently. The partner said "Oh, ok maybe Orkid can do it then" ... and I don't have the fucking work ethic of a cat so I would never say no. So, I'm being punished for having good work ethic.

Even so, they are consistently angry with ME for "bringing politics into the office, and creating a tense environment" ... I mean what the hell. Then I heard the partner say to the other partner "I don't care, he HAS to do it", just like the one that shouted at me the other day saying "if I tell you to do something you fucking do it" .. It seems this only applies to me here.

Another ridiculous thing that happened the other day: top partner asked me to find a conferencing system that works with skype ... um, ok, googled and found it. Sent the link and then he called me into the board room where he was sitting with the admin chick and said "can you sit with admin chick to buy the conferencing system?" ... Mind you, the linked website opened up to a BUY NOW button ... AND I don't have a company card. So he effectively told me to sit with her, press the BUY NOW button, and tell her where to put in the card details. Worst part is that he then defended his choice to spend MY time on that rather than on the things that make money for the firm, by saying "but you're more intelligent, she doesn't know how to do those things". My fucking God ... first of all, has she never purchased anything online? Second, is she dumber than my 12 year old cousin? Third, and based on the first two, why the F**K did you hire her then!?

I don't get it, my mind is blown.

Please also remember that this is an office of a total of 6 people. 4 partners, me as analyst, and the admin chick. So not caring about the current vibe is not easy. I'm also getting the feeling that they're unhappy with ME now, only because I have an issue with some useless employee that takes up more time than she frees up (the whole point of her employment was to save us time, and they're even still bullshitting me about that). Anyway, I have that gut feeling that they're going to look for a way to get me fired as soon as they can afford to.

Don't waste your life only thinking about money and prestige
 

Dude, you need a serious attitude adjustment. At first I felt for your situation but the more you write the more of your hand you keep revealing and it isn't good. Yes you work in PE; however, you also work at a tiny shop and are the most Jr. employee on what you constantly and pretentiously refer to the "front office" (besides on WSO for discussion purposes who really talks like this). You are not valuable despite what you think. At startups/small firms you often need to do stupid stuff like buy knives regardless of whether or not you have other stuff to do and if there is a "back office" person. Shit, even at a BB analysts are doing dumb shit all the time - getting coffee, picking up lunch, running errands. Everything you have described, from your additional tasks, to the partners not trusting the admin, sound utterly and completely normal, especially for being at a smaller firm. With your attitude I'd fire you too.

Suck it up, work hard, gain respect and slowly move up the totem pole - at this firm or where ever you end up. Stop focusing so much negative energy on insignificant minutia.

 

Agreed.

You get paid to come to work and do shit. Some of that shit is more interesting than other shit. If it was all a barrel of monkeys, they wouldn't have to pay people to do it. If you work in a small office, you have to wear a lot of hats, especially if you're a junior guy.

So lets analyze this: Admin asked to do something. Effectively rebuffs without ruffling feathers. OP asked to do something. Ends up having to do it. And ruffles feathers in the process.

So who exactly is the dumb one? Not only is he doing the work, but he's also coming off as the lazy turd who thinks he's too good to do shit he's paid to do.

 
ke18sb:

Dude, you need a serious attitude adjustment. At first I felt for your situation but the more you write the more of your hand you keep revealing and it isn't good. Yes you work in PE; however, you also work at a tiny shop and are the most Jr. employee on what you constantly and pretentiously refer to the "front office" (besides on WSO for discussion purposes who really talks like this). You are not valuable despite what you think. At startups/small firms you often need to do stupid stuff like buy knives regardless of whether or not you have other stuff to do and if there is a "back office" person. Shit, even at a BB analysts are doing dumb shit all the time - getting coffee, picking up lunch, running errands. Everything you have described, from your additional tasks, to the partners not trusting the admin, sound utterly and completely normal, especially for being at a smaller firm. With your attitude I'd fire you too.

Suck it up, work hard, gain respect and slowly move up the totem pole - at this firm or where ever you end up. Stop focusing so much negative energy on insignificant minutia.

This.
 

Nothing is above your paygrade when you are the lowest paygrade in the room. Be happy that you even have a paygrade and had you played your cards better and when they eventually started bringing in more employees, guess who would've been king of the peons.

 

I haven't had this attitude... I've driven wives to doctors and picked up friends at the airport for the partners, among many other personal errands, and never said a thing. But I was also told by these same people that we were hiring someone specifically to do this stuff because we don't have the time to spend on such things.

You can't look at these things as stand alone. A person was hired to do take away admin burdens. Said person has an attitude of saying "no" to admin things, e.g. one partner asked her to book flight tickets for business trip, admin person answered "no, I'm not booking tickets for you, you can book them yourself". My employment contract gives me 10% profit share. 10% profit share is taken away, whilst new person who says no to everything and contributes very little, get double the bonus (I don't care about base, I understand base is lower for me). I wouldn't have an issue with any of this if it wasn't blatantly the exact opposite of what I had been told, and what is in written form in my employment contract and signed by the partners.

It's very simple, just like in any relationship between people. It's about trust, because of the simple fact that if someone says something and does another, it isn't far fetched for history to repeat itself. I just think it's weird that insubordination and shit work ethic appears to be rewarded, and I think the partners find it easier to put it on me because she may or may not be backed and protected by the 'big' partner. Not too long ago, one of the partners (the one I work with most) even said: "I don't know why 'big partner' is protecting her at the moment, but after the project (that they were working on) there are no more excuses".

I think there's something odd going on that I am not aware of. But at the end of the day, I'm already one foot out the firm and concentrating on other opportunities, whilst doing what is asked of me with a smile on my face.

I don't understand why you're not seeing my reasoning though? It's about division of labour. If I have big projects that are my responsibility, and we hired a person to do the admin stuff, but says she doesn't have time because she needs to leave at 15:30 everyday, I have to do it despite having less time than her which means I have to simply make up for the lost time at night. Mind you, the knife engraving place is more on her way home than mine, so rather than pass by there at 15:30 today, I had to leave work before 17:00 (closing time) to get them in. I don't think that makes much sense for the company, and is not the best use of its resources. At the very least, do not blame it on time when I know for a fact it isn't a time issue. Fairly sure she just didn't want to do it. It's a really bad culture fit, as no one else in the office has ever said no to doing something, and no one (including the partners who really don't have time) has ever said they don't have time for something.

But then again, maybe I am completely wrong about this whole situation.

Don't waste your life only thinking about money and prestige
 

It's obviously not a fun place to work, which is why you should look for an exit.

But it's not about who is right or wrong regarding the division of labor. Whoever is cutting your checks, is always right. Next time you voice concern or ruffle feathers, you should ask yourself what good will come from it. Because if they went to the admin employee and are now coming to you, do you think you raising a fuss is going to change their minds? It's a shame you are putting in so much work only to fumble in the red zone.

As far as the other employee goes, forget she exists, do what you're told. If they really hired her to ease your burden of wearing multiple hats, but you are still being bogged down, it will show on its own. All raising a fuss does is put them on the defensive (bad for you), or make you appear to be the source of their headache (bad for you). Now the partners know they have you working quite a bit, they go to the office admin and she says no (they probably aren't thrilled about that) now come over to you, and you say, "No problem sir, I'll have it done by X time". Look who just alleviated their headache and looks a helluva lot better than the office admin... you. As an added bonus you didn't have to say a damn thing to accomplish this stark contrast of who is valuable and who is not.

Remember my advice on the second page... Don't miss this opportunity to shut the fuck up. See how prescient said advice was? :)

 

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Follow the shit your fellow monkeys say @shitWSOsays Life is hard, it's even harder when you're stupid - John Wayne
 

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