Attracted to Current Analyst I Coffee Chatted
Currently a sophomore who just landed an IB offer and I've been sending thank you emails to some of the bankers I've Coffee Chatted over the past few months. Throughout my networking process, a lot of the Bankers I've had calls with are very attractive and we vibe very well at least over the phone. I've been starting to realize that I'm more attracted to women who are in IB more than any other demographic (maybe except art/music girls) and I internally sort out others (no consulting, stem). To be honest one of the not so major (but still at the back of my mind) motivators for landing IB was that I could date someone at BofA, RBC, etc. IBD. For any current FT Bankers who are dating or married to a Banker, where did you meet her and how has it been?
Based on the most helpful WSO content, dating within the IB world is not uncommon, and many bankers have shared their experiences. Here are some insights:
Meeting Other Bankers: Many relationships between bankers often start within the workplace or through mutual connections in the finance industry. For example, some have met their partners while working at the same bank but in different groups, which helps avoid direct professional conflicts.
Understanding the Lifestyle: Dating someone in IB can be advantageous because they understand the demanding hours and unpredictable schedules. This mutual understanding often reduces guilt or frustration when plans change due to work commitments.
Workplace Dynamics: While dating a colleague can work out well for some, others strongly advise against it. One user explicitly mentioned, "DO NOT SLEEP WITH YOUR CO-WORKERS," citing personal mistakes. It's essential to weigh the risks and maintain professionalism.
Compatibility: Bankers often find compatibility with others in finance due to shared experiences and understanding of the industry's rigor. However, some also prefer partners in less demanding fields, like PR or creative industries, for a better work-life balance.
General Advice: If you're considering dating within IB, ensure clear boundaries and prioritize professionalism. Relationships can thrive when both partners respect each other's careers and maintain a healthy balance between work and personal life.
If you're drawn to the idea of dating someone in IB, just remember to approach it thoughtfully and avoid letting it interfere with your professional goals.
Sources: To date a banker or not to date a banker, there is no try, Dating a girl in banking, IB Dating, IB Dating
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