Director says one thing, VP another

Really simple, maybe many have you have dealt with it: Director and VP had a falling out recently, like full blown argument.

Director has thing he says: I want to be cc’d on all emails you send out (no matter how innocuous)

VP, much more laid back and about the bigger picture and people: I don’t want the Director cc’d on my deals.

For context: the VP essentially acts as a director and she joined thinking she’d be an equal partner in the business (it’s just Director, VP, me), but she keeps getting micromanaged by Director, like the example above.

Obviously I have my own opinion, also. It is annoying to be micromanaged and made to cc him on everything – we’re not children and he doesn’t rule by fiat.

It’s also a one way street: the deals he and I only work on together: he doesn’t cc the VP (she doesn’t care) but he wants it both ways.

Even if his (implied) point is valid – I want to be involved, not caught off guard, I have more experience, I want oversight, etc. (don’t want to make his case for him either since VP is much more open and he’s more…traditional)

Hate being caught in the middle of this – workplace drama. The work is already work enough without extra helping from this thing, and I really naively wish that I could just do the job without people drama – except I’ve come to understand that you can’t separate IB, or any job, from people politics and drama – fucking sucks so bad.

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This sounds like a nightmare. I would cc the director but it’ll probably blow back on you a bit with the vp. Is there a way you can tell the vp that you feel uncomfortable and he is your groups superior so you have to cc him? Maybe ask her to take it up with him.

 

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