I was an intern at a BB last summer and got accidentally into relationship with my VP. It was during my third week, and she invited me to dinner, I was Lik wtf, but then we had drink and we had sex. She said she wanna date me but I have a fiancée also, just not in NYC, and I took the return offer to come back this coming fall, what shall I do? Shall I break up or continue this relationship with the VP? It’s a very good BB also
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This is a fucked situation. But I imagine having a VP to pull for you would help a lot. I would just keep fucking her for the sake of your career.
In what position tho? Do u think VP has like a unique taste usually?
Ur a terrible person lol
Ik but I cannot control my self also
This is so real
you are a scumbag for cheating on your fiance and stupid for screwing where you work. let's hope you at least sack up when it is time to face consequences.
Will I go to hell?
yes
Nah nothing that bad. like i said, at least accept that you are scum and when it is time to face the consequences, don't be a coward and try to blame anyone or pity yourself. i say that because your responses already seem to include self pity with all that "yeah i know i am trash, i can't control myself" garbage. people who want an excuse to be scum usually say that shit. how about you sack up and be a good human being instead of accepting the status quo of you being filth.
Now this has to be a troll
Never shit where you eat.
Moronic thing to do, especially as a man in this #metoo era.
If VP turns on you nobody is going to back you, regardless of the truth.
Either way - if you continued with VP, sooner or later she will want more. So you'll be forced to make a choice.
#metoo doesn't apply here, she's much more senior than him. Learn power dynamics.
Never happened tho
Yeah that’s where I’m worried about
Just join the bank and play it easy lol. 2 years will pass quickly.
How does the VP look? How does the GF look? Physical features. Which one of them looks hotter?
You're such a fucking Reddit incel.
Bruh you're gonna spend with someone unattractive for the rest of your life? If that's the VP, not in a million years, no matter the career pros. If the gf, the answer is easy.
Have you never left your house? The majority of people in cities like New York think like this, and the majority of eastern Asia places the most value on the appearances of women as well. Like it or not, this is how the world works, grow up.
The VP has better shape but my fiance cooks me dinner when i get back home at 12am
RIP bro, you're gonna end up like a country song. Lose the wife, job, sidepiece, hell maybe your dog too haha
This is hilarious, but if it's real, you're kinda screwed. Honestly, you may have to break it off with the fiance. If this comes out before the wedding, you're reputation will be destroyed. If it comes out after, your reputation will be destroyed AND you'll be on the hook for so many payments after the divorce court settlement. Also just in general, doesn't sound like you're ready for marriage anyways
No I am, I just cannot control that desire to have sex w a different person
So you’re literally not
Just be like Tate and smash 304's on the sides
Assuming this is real, it was incredibly short-sighted to post about it on this forum. It’s not that hard for someone close to you guys to piece these details together.
Tbh we kept it very secret
Secret or not, SHE could end up seeing this. You weren't very discrete describing it.
Never Happened.
Damn OP if this is real you're a lucky man, I'd love to abuse my VP.
Wut position?
Break up with your fiance, early marriage rarely works and requires specific types of people, you aren't among those.
I think pursuing a long term relationship with a female VP is a mistake (women usually end up looking for opposite power dynamics), but that's up to you.
I felt mentally already tbh
Stay engaged, let your finance does her wife duties taking care of you. But keep fucking your VP.
Keep your VP as your fuck buddy. Since your VP is a woman, it's inevitable she will catch feels at some point. Given she's your staffer, leverage that to have easier workload and use her to bridge the relationships with MDs.
Remember, this is a downturn market for IB and VPs are very likely to get cut. If your VP is distracted by office romance, her performance will bleed and she will probably get kicked. You're an intern/1st year analyst, you're cheap, you're fine. If your VP performance is still solid, use your official relationship with your fiance to sir up drama in your VP's personal life so that her professional performance will suffer.
Anyway, the mission you're on should be extracting all the values from your VP and then plan her demise. She's old and probably will hit the wall soon so don't even think about any serious relationship with her, recretional use only.
And your fiance, well, if that one doesn't blow up, then fine, keep her around, if not, meh, find another one.
Thx for the advice, I have been so stressed recently
😯
Assuming your VP will still be interested in you when you return FT lol
I had no idea other SA were having this kind of fun when I was centering tables at 10pm. Clearly I missed out.
This is clearly a troll post (and a good one at that given all the genuine responses). How does no one see that
No trolling, i'm actually suffering morally rn
This man is the GOAT. I thought I was him but he clearly is.
thx, but I'm sincerely asking for help
Love ain’t easy Chanel
I’m sorry everyone wants to have sex with me!
-DICKIE DOLLAR SCHOLARS 4 LIFE
Not seeing a problem here, what's the issue.
I'm afraid of going to hell
Definitely went to BYU if engaged as an intern lmao
“Had relations with my VP. What should I do?”
Buy her breakfast.
Be a gentleman and be discreet.
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