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Sex and relationships are nothing special, but when you are deprived of them for long enough it consumes a lot of your mental energy. Despite the bad rep, I think you should see an escort and at least remove the virginity label. These labels you are assigning to yourself, consciously or not, are not helpful and once you drop them I do think you will have a much easier time with women.

All the best brother.

 

This entirely depens on what you want. Do you want sex? Do you want a relationship? Do you need both? More details if you want good advice, but I'll say this. 24 is young, and I know many folks who are still virgins at 24. You're not alone

 

Best bet is to hit up the gym, develop some hobbies and things will come around eventually. Get on some dating apps with your toned gym body. Don't listen to these fools about getting a hooker. The end game here is finding meaningful relationships, not useless sex.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 
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You've come to the wrong place.

I'll say it for you, because it may in fact "Never Happened".

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I was a late bloomer myself.  Have you actually tried talking to any women or did you give up after a couple of strikeouts?  Do you know how to carry a normal conversation in most instances?   Because you're going to need reps in order to avoid coming off socially awkward or too introverted around women - it only gets harder from here.  

If you're an average individual (not particularly handsome, rich, or tall) this is 100% a numbers game no matter what anyone tells you.  You must cast a wide net and go through the usual trial-and-error until you find something that sticks.   Also consider lowering your standards a bit for the practice. Probably a few alright girls who've liked you but you were just too focused on the hot ones to notice. 

 

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