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"I recommended that he go to therapy" lmao if I was in his shoes I would avoid you extra after that
I'm in the same boat. Slightly worse actually. No solution here - just offering mental and emotional support
insightful, thanks for this
Let's compare notes with you and my sibling. Mine has been doing this nonsense for three years now since he graduated, or for longer if you count making zero plans for post graduation while in school
At some point, you need to accept that you cannot change how people are.
He has had many, many chances to start digging himself out of this pit but doesn't because he thinks it's cringe, or looks down on people who have jobs they don't enjoy, because he is afraid of failure, because he's spoiled, or whatever.
My parents who still treat him like a college freshman have also had many chances, but instead they choose to live out their golden years taking care of a spoiled man child. They haven't taken a vacation in years, but once again, their choice to treat him like he's infallable.
You personally risked your reputation with your friends by vouching for someone who has zero social skills and most likely would be a terrible coworker. You have also offered him money for therapy. You have done more than enough. If he reaches out, help him, but you have your own life to worry about.
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