Hello WSO/Ann Landers,
I was too embarrassed to ask this on my regular fake name, but I'm a long time user with a bit of a problem/mindf*ck . Feel free to fling away but I want to get this off my chest.
So I'm happily married, and somewhere in age between the average new WSO user and @Edmundo Braverman. I love my wife to death, but for whatever reason, BAM, I've developed feelings ... for my supervisor. And I mean, this just hit me about a week ago, after we'd spent time outside of work (completely innocent, other teammates around, I don't think the interest is mutual).
I've worked for her for a while, and yes, she's always been easy on the eyes and had a great personality, etc., so I don't know what the shit is happening. As weird as that sounds, it just kinda happened, or so I think. It came on aggressive, and I'm trying like a mo-fo to tell myself it's wrong and move on with my life.
What is this, my third-life crisis? Do I just need a tattoo or drum set or a Tesla or something? I've already determined I need to grow a pair, so don't remind me. I'm really writing because this shit has distracted me constantly at work and home. I want to go back to thinking only about the family, and just want to know if anyone else has dealt with this and how you pushed through it (outside of acting on your desires). I wish it were just need for tail, I'd go take a shower.