easy job suggestions for GF to start contributing?
Went and did it boys, finally got myself a GF after years of endless dating and trying.
She is great, however.. only downside is, holy fck they’re expensive. Not only am I now paying for double the grocery shopping and double the electric/gas/water bills but there’s all the additional costs involved, for example:
“I want to eat dinner out” “let’s go for brunch” “i want to go on holiday” “ ” “I want to go to the theatre” “It’s my besties birthday you’re coming and need to buy her a gift” literally had to spend $200 on some necklace for some hoe I’ve never met before just because it was my gf’s fcking “bestie”
I feel like im going broke having a gf, the added financial stress it’s given me genuinely wants me to go back to being single. But I’m old now in my 30s and want to settle down so trying to deal with it.
She’s unemployed and wants to be a house wife, so basically just sits and chills all day spending my money. I can’t afford it. She did make this clear from the start she wanted to be a house wife to raise the kids and that she doesn’t want to work. I first thought it was fine because I earn a good salary and I do want a house wife to raise my future kids. But Jesus I had no ideal how insanely expensive it would be. My added cost bill to support my gf is thousands a month.
Now I want to have an honest conversation that I can’t continue like this and she’s going to need to start pulling her weight to help with expenses.
What are some easy decent paid jobs I could suggest to her? I was thinking to suggest like a job at Starbucks or a supermarket but feel she would look at me with disgust if I say this. Also she is very introverted so i feel they wouldn’t be good for her anyway. Any recommendations?