Getting over her (or how do I get her)?

HS Senior going to top-target this fall and have this girl I need to get over (or get with). She's going to a top-target, not finance though.

Since we ask each other everything on this forum, how do I do this

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You’re in HS and about to graduate. Literally nothing to lose, grow a pair and do it (I believe in you!). I did and best choice of my life. Current college soph and going strong with basically the same start that you’re in right now.

 
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HS Senior going to top-target this fall

I don't see how your school is relevant at all to the topic at hand here. Your insistence in not only mentioning it, but leading your post with it, does not impress me at all but merely points me to your insecurity. Which is perfectly normal. Many of us have battled countless insecurities in life, especially in adolescence, but trust me--the first step to finding success in any interpersonal relationship is to be humble and be yourself. You're not defined by your job, your school, or any extrinsic quality; carry yourself as you are and people will see that.

P.S. Not trying to attack you for going to a good school (I also went to a top target). I just want to help you overcome a phase that I once succumbed to.

 

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