Monkeys!
So I've been thinking about this for a while now and kinda wanted to get your opinion on this. I was a SA at a top BB last summer and wanted to go FT at EB(EVR, LAZ, PJT) so I didn't care about anything and ended up hooking up with an Associate from a different group. Turns out I didn't get into EB and received FT from my BB and now I am about to start this fall. I don't know how to handle the awkwardness especially after that Associate added me on LinkedIn 2 weeks ago. We are not in the same group but I think I'll be seeing him once we go back to the office.
PS. We both are guys and straight (at least I am) and I have a girlfriend and I don't know what to do about this whole situation.
How are you straight if you hooked up with a dude?
it was a happy hour and I was kinda drunk
“I was drunk it doesn’t count!”
Mate I’ve got some news for you...
Mate I think most of us would have to be so drunk we'd have already passed out for that to happen. But hey, I respect the hustle and I'm sure you'll get the return offer. The hard way.
just admit it, you will feel free
You better have been wearing socks...
Also, I did say "no homo" so I'm good
Ah there we go! Problem solved, just tell your gf that she'll be fine
i gotta leave this at 69 sb
10/10, would read again
also, epic username
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this is very important
Someone took the advice to play the "LGBT+ card" a bit too seriously.
Appreciate the dedication and commitment, tho.
I think we're all thinking it, but nobody has explicitly asked... I'm sure it was a new experience for you. I'm straight, and not homophobic, so I've certainly been curious:
What did it feel like when you tried to sit down the next morning?
How many pillows did you need to sit on?
gayyyyyyyy
You've made my day!!!
wtf
Dude it's more common than you think and just pretend nothing happened at least that's what HR told me
"at least that's what hr told me" wtf ahhahahah
Did the same thing bro
I think the other guy should give you a silver banana.
He kinda already did tho
its not gay if you have your socks on
seriously just be cool about it. You would not believe how many people have hooked up in your office/friend groups/social circles that you would never have guessed; people are good at covering things up. We've all made some questionable decisions while drunk - it's totally normal if you both pretend its normal. I've personally hooked up with 2 of my friends in my closest circle while drunk and hooked up with a professor at my college before I was accepted (never had class but ran into them at a social function) and nobody knows anything about anything
I thought I can keep this a secret but he just added me on LinkedIn. He may like me so I hope he makes VP soon so I can milk him for better deals and promotion. Also, I'm pretty sure he had a sock on but I was too drunk to remember.
honestly just don't worry about it - you're probably fine. If he does become VP, it will be good for your career. However, don't piss him off or offend him - that could be bad for your career. You can't change the past, just be chill about things now and don't worry too much.
I bet you could milk him real good now since you've had some practice
Sounds like you already did
Wait, this is normal in IB? I guess you people weren't joking about the kneepads.
Get a kneepad for gardening - except this time, you're sucking seed and not planting it
Curious how you explained that to your girl. Either way I think you should move on or tell your girl the truth. Especially if you're working together with him
I would advise against telling your girl - if you hooked up with a girl you're best to avoid telling her about it imo, with a guy its 10x worse because people still have terrible stigma against bisexuality (not saying you are) but there's still so many girls who think any guy who has hooked up with a guy are 100% gay and not straight. Most girls aren't cool with it, they think you're gay, and might want to break up. So be cautious and smart.
for the first time EVER, you are dropping solid knowledge and wisdom while also mentioning getting fucked in the ass.
Do NOT tell the girl!!
If it was nothing, and you're trying to minimize it, don't give it any air time. You aired enough here, got it off your chest, vented, DONE.
Over. Next. Accept the LinkedIn, be polite, in 2 minutes he'll know you have a girlfriend (who knows nothing), and it's history.
Do NOT tell her.
He literally said it in his note "excited for you to start ;)" in his LinkedIn request and I never cringed this hard
"babe I always wondered how it is like to suck a dick so I tried it with this dude and it really liked it but don't worry no homo"
I mean don't knock it til you try it lol
phrasing
First I thought you are a dude hooked up with a female associate,..
Then read this sentence "I think I'll be seeing him once we go back to the office" I thought ohhh so you're a female intern...
And then this sentence "We both are guys and straight (at least I am)"...what the fuck lolololol
It's high time that drunk office hook-ups included LGBTs. Jack accidentally banging Karen from compliance or whoever is so 20th century.
"Accidentally"
I'm 100% straight and sck dck because im comfortable with my sexuality
I’m so confused. I can’t tell if people are joking here.
He's mocking OP
actually am quite surprised and happy to see that most people aren't bashing him for being gay but are actually helping him out
it’s 2020 boomer, no one cares if you’re gay
cringe
TEA SO HOT
They had us in the 1st half, not gonna lie
Look I’m sorry but if you’re attracted to other men in the slightest and then acted on it, you must tell your girlfriend. What someone said earlier about girls not being cool with it is true, but you might be surprised. My situation is the reverse and it’s always been better to be honest than have people find out from someone else (worst case). P.S. straight people don’t have sex with the same sex. They almost always stay in the top region lol. Might want to reconsider your definition of “straight”
Might want to upgrade your understanding of human sexuality to v.2020
Straight people have gay sex in 2020?
pathetic
Yeaahhh no, you're not straight if you're having gay sex. If you can be straight while having gay sex then I can identify as gayLGBTQ and benefit from their hiring initiatives even though I only have straight sex
You should endorse him on LinkedIn for persuasion, teamwork, and maybe time management
I haven't laughed that hard in a long time...
Should you be posting here given how oddly specific your story is?