Personal Development Sites

Hi Fellow Monkeys,

I am trying to build up a list of resources for everyone on Wall Street Oasis to share. As I look at the forum, there are a lot of resources on getting a job in Finance. I believe that everyone is attracted to Finance, other than having a genuine interest in the market, is to obtain happiness. To most of us, we have somewhat of a notion that money can solve majority of our problems.

To me, to be happy, requires a holistic approach at looking at every part of life and slowly improving all areas: wealth, career (Wall Street Oasis is in this area), health, spiritual (hobby) and relationship (dating, family). It took me a year to look into all types of books and websites and I have complied this list so far.

I would love to hear it from my fellow Monkeys, regarding resources (books or websites) that target these areas of life: wealth, career, health, spiritual, relationship. I will be publishing the new list once I sort and collect the resources that you guys have suggested. Thanks in advance.

Warmest regards,
sxh6321

Self Education:
http://www.khanacademy.org/
http://www.codecademy.com/
http://learncss.tutsplus.com/
http://www.marcandangel.com/2010/11/15/12-dozen-places-to-self-educate-yourself-online/

Relationship:
http://www.menspsychology.com
http://betterasianman.wordpress.com
http://therulesofagentleman.tumblr.com
http://artofmanliness.com
http://www.askmen.com/dating
http://vanae.com

Dating Coaches (Products):
http://www.abcsofattraction.com/index.php
http://www.doubleyourdating.com
http://www.deida.info
http://themysterymethod.net
http://www.neilstrauss.com

Wealth:
https://www.richdadcoaching.com
http://www.fool.com

Career (General):
http://www.interactivelifecoach.com

Health:
http://www.scotthermanfitness.com
http://www.scoobysworkshop.com
http://www.menshealth.com
http://www.beachbody.com

Spiritual:
http://www.marcandangel.com
http://www.basicincome.com/bp/artofconv.htm
http://www.mbaonline.com
http://users.aristotle.net/~diogenes/meaning1.htm
http://www.essentiallifeskills.net
http://www.famousandrich.com
http://www.positivityblog.com
http://paulocoelhoblog.com
https://www.canfieldcoaching.com
http://www.bretlsimmons.com
http://thesartorialist.blogspot.com
http://www.valetmag.com/the-handbook/features/31-days/index.php

Career (Banking-News Feed):
http://finviz.com/news.ashx
http://www.alphathrottle.co.cc
http://www.preqin.com
http://www.pehub.com
http://247wallst.com/

Career (Banking-Info):
//www.wallstreetoasis.com
http://theibanker.com
http://www.mercantigroup.com/Industry/industry-monitor.aspx?PageId=monitor-1
http://www.distressed-debt-investing.com/
http://informationarbitrage.com/

Relationship:
The 5 Love Languages. Gary Chapman
Rules of the Game. Neil Strauss
Why Women Have Sex? Cindy M. Meston
Emotional Intelligence. Daniel Goleman
Predictably Irrational. Dan Ariely
The User Illusion. Tor Norretranders
The Seven Dumbest Relationship Mistakes Smart People Make. Carolyn Bushong

Wealth:
The Richest Man In Bablyon. George S. Clason
Rich Dad Poor Dad. Robert Kiyosaki
Millionaire by Thirty. Douglas R. Andrew
The Ascent of Money: A Financial History of the World. Niall Ferguson

Career:
The 48 Laws of Power. Robert Greene
The Power of Focus. Jack Canfield
Art of War. Sun Tzu
Dig Your Well Before You’re Thirsty. Harvey Mackay
The Prince. Niccolo Machiavelli
The Success Principles. Jack Canfield
Goldman Sachs: The Culture of Success. Lisa Endlich
Buffett: The Making of an American Capitalist. Roger Lowenstein
The Tipping Point: How Little Things Can Make a Big Difference. Malcolm Gladwell

Health:
Training Guide 2011. Men’s Health

Spiritual:
Gut Check. Tarek Saab
Eleven Minutes. Paulo Coelho
The Alchemist. Paulo Coelho
5: Where Will You be Five Years from Today? Dan Zadra
Endurance: Shackleton’s Incredible Voyage. Alfred Lansing

 

Great idea! I love this! Here’s some gems I’ve found:

Social networking: Lemonparty.biz

Arts/Ceramics: 2 girls 1 cup (they teach you how to make cups out of brown clay) 1 man 1 jar – this guy shows you how to make jars MudMonster.org 4 girls fingerpaint

Dating: Tubgirl.com

Animal rights activism: Goatse

Technology: The mac user Phonejapan.com

Athletics: BME Pain Olypmics

Culinary: Meatspin.biz EelSoup.net FruitLauncher.com

That’s all I’ve got for now.

 
swagon:
Great idea! I love this! Here’s some gems I’ve found:

Social networking: Lemonparty.biz

Arts/Ceramics: 2 girls 1 cup (they teach you how to make cups out of brown clay) 1 man 1 jar – this guy shows you how to make jars MudMonster.org 4 girls fingerpaint

Dating: Tubgirl.com

Animal rights activism: Goatse

Technology: The mac user Phonejapan.com

Athletics: BME Pain Olypmics

Culinary: Meatspin.biz EelSoup.net FruitLauncher.com

That’s all I’ve got for now.

F*cking classic...

On a serious note, Kahn Academy videos were soley responsible for getting me thru college calculus.

 

There's a site called Wall Street Utopia?!?

A few you may want to add:

SeekingAlpha.com (Investing) Dealbreaker.com (Banking) Macabacus.com (Free Financial Modeling Lessons) ManagementConsulted.com

By the way have you used that Connect Cubed site? I think someone from their site posted on here a few weeks ago, but then the post was deleted within the same day...seemed kind of sketch.

 
EngBanker:
FANTASTIC IDEA! I'll post some stuff but in the mean time can we have a category for volunteer-ism/philanthropy/do-gooder stuff. Let's not be single dimensional here ;)

And also, "spiritual" has a whole lot of random things in it...mbaonline?! sartorialist?

How about something along the lines of intellectualism?

I can't really pin down on something so I just put spiritual. It can mean lifestyle, interesting reads online, fashion, philosophy, psychology, and so forth. Great idea. I will further break it down in my new list. Thanks for your input.

"I am the hero of the story. I don't need to be saved."
 

Decent idea, sent you a PM OP.

"You stop being an asshole when it sucks to be you." -IlliniProgrammer "Your grammar made me wish I'd been aborted." -happypantsmcgee
 

I just checked out marcandangel.com and the bookboon link... Hundreds of free business books in PDF form.

I was trying to figure out how they were "free" and found almost all are made by the same publisher and they all have several 1 page advertisements in them. I'm fine with that.. pretty big book list.

 
beancounter:
I just checked out marcandangel.com and the bookboon link... Hundreds of free business books in PDF form.

I was trying to figure out how they were "free" and found almost all are made by the same publisher and they all have several 1 page advertisements in them. I'm fine with that.. pretty big book list.

I am glad that you find this useful. :-)

"I am the hero of the story. I don't need to be saved."
 
GetOnTop:
Solid list, I'll be bookmarking this thread and coming back to it. I'd add How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie and Outliers by Gladwell to the career section.

Thanks. Will do. :)

"I am the hero of the story. I don't need to be saved."
 

7 habits by steve cowley

- Bulls make money. Bears make money. Pigs get slaughtered. - The harder you work, the luckier you become. - I believe in the "Golden Rule": the man with the gold rules.
 
EngBanker:
Never Eat Alone by Keith Ferrazzi. Goes well with how to win friends and influence people. Maybe a "networking" category?

Almost forget about that book (never eat alone). Thanks for reminding me. Appreciate it.

"I am the hero of the story. I don't need to be saved."
 

4 hour body by tim ferriss the prince by niccolo machiavelli

- Bulls make money. Bears make money. Pigs get slaughtered. - The harder you work, the luckier you become. - I believe in the "Golden Rule": the man with the gold rules.
 
Ske7ch:
4 hour body by tim ferriss the prince by niccolo machiavelli

The Prince is a great book. One of my mentors suggested this book: "The Origins of Political Order: From Prehuman Times to the French Revolution" by Francis Fukuyama. Have you read this before?

"I am the hero of the story. I don't need to be saved."
 

"The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

 
HWF:
"The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Great quote. Thanks for sharing. :-)

"I am the hero of the story. I don't need to be saved."
 
utexas2010:
2 great websites that I really enjoy:

www.zenhabits.com (life, productivity, ending the rat race, happiness, etc.) www.mnmlist.com (same as above)

I will probably get criticized for this one but the 4 hour work week blog by Tim Ferris hits a lot of the categories you describe:

www.fourhourworkweek.com /blog/

thanks. http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/ looks pretty interesting.

"I am the hero of the story. I don't need to be saved."
 

Willpower- Roy F. Baumeister

- Bulls make money. Bears make money. Pigs get slaughtered. - The harder you work, the luckier you become. - I believe in the "Golden Rule": the man with the gold rules.
 

Sun Tzu For Success: How to use The Art of War to Master Challenges and Accomplish... by Gerald Michaelson Wherever You Go There You Are by Jon Kabat-Zihn Buddha's Brain by Rick Hanson Unleash The Warrior Within by Richard J. Machowicz

Harvey Specter doesn't get cotton mouth.
 
ScoobyDoobie:
Sun Tzu For Success: How to use The Art of War to Master Challenges and Accomplish... by Gerald Michaelson Wherever You Go There You Are by Jon Kabat-Zihn Buddha's Brain by Rick Hanson Unleash The Warrior Within by Richard J. Machowicz

Thanks for your input. Appreciate it. Hope you find the list of resources helpful.

"I am the hero of the story. I don't need to be saved."
 

Networking Like a Pro: Turning Contacts into Connections by Ivan Misner. Anybody read this? I've heard good things about it.

Under education: for anything and everything MBA related poetsandquants.com. Absolute gem of a website for anybody interested in biz schools. And while you're at it, maybe add ANT's MSF blog under the education category too.

 
EngBanker:
Networking Like a Pro: Turning Contacts into Connections by Ivan Misner. Anybody read this? I've heard good things about it.

Under education: for anything and everything MBA related poetsandquants.com. Absolute gem of a website for anybody interested in biz schools. And while you're at it, maybe add ANT's MSF blog under the education category too.

Sure, I can do that. Thanks for your input, appreciate it. :-)

"I am the hero of the story. I don't need to be saved."
 
EngBanker:
Relationships: becomeaplayer.com/ (lots of free stuff)

Education: gmatclub.com seeing as there are lots of threads asking about gmat and admission stuff. The BEST part of gmatclub is the forums on the specific schools and the application tracker portions. You can really get a feel of who is applying and where your stats stand.

Have you heard of David DeAngelo at doubleyourdating.com/DavidDeAngelo? I followed his program for awhile. He focuses on personal development rather than just teaching guys pick up lines. I highly recommend him.

Thanks for sharing. I really appreciate it. :-)

"I am the hero of the story. I don't need to be saved."
 

OP: Didn't end up sending you a PM haha, had a question that was answered already :)

"You stop being an asshole when it sucks to be you." -IlliniProgrammer "Your grammar made me wish I'd been aborted." -happypantsmcgee
 
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Oh god, Ask Men's dating advice? Please no. Five Love Languages is great, though.

I'd recommend any sort of behavioral economics/psychology books (Spent comes to mind) that talk about consumer behavior, so you can be more conscious of the constant messaging around you to spend spend spend.

And, though perhaps it doesn't fit into the prescribed categories, I think reading Vonnegut is essential for personal development...learning how to laugh at the bullshit in/of life is essential. And since someone mentioned poetry, I highly recommend any T.S. Eliot (especially the Wasteland and Rhapsody on a Windy Night).

Edit to add http://epicureandealmaker.blogspot.com/ (assumed it was on the list already).

 
anaismalcolm:
Oh god, Ask Men's dating advice? Please no. Five Love Languages is great, though.

I'd recommend any sort of behavioral economics/psychology books (Spent comes to mind) that talk about consumer behavior, so you can be more conscious of the constant messaging around you to spend spend spend.

And, though perhaps it doesn't fit into the prescribed categories, I think reading Vonnegut is essential for personal development...learning how to laugh at the bullshit in/of life is essential. And since someone mentioned poetry, I highly recommend any T.S. Eliot (especially the Wasteland and Rhapsody on a Windy Night).

Edit to add http://epicureandealmaker.blogspot.com/ (assumed it was on the list already).

thanks for your advice. i appreciate it.

"I am the hero of the story. I don't need to be saved."
 

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